I know I'm a terrible person for thinking these things and feeling this way.You all are so much better than me. There is a female that I work with that I absolutely hate. I hate her to the point that I wish she were dead. No, I'm not going to hurt her or kill her or even give her dirty looks. I can't. I have tried to think of ways to "get her" and I honestly can't bring myself to do anything to her. That would make me just as bad as her. Plus, I'm just not like that. But I'm telling you the honest to god's truth, when bad things happen to her in her life, it makes me so happy. And I really do believe that if I came in to work one day and found out she were dead, I'd be even happier. She is an evil bitch. I'm quitting my job here because of her (not the only reason, but for the past 5 years she has made me miserable and it has contributed to my decision to leave, if she weren't here, I might actually stay). I really wish there were a way to let her know how I felt about her (she wouldn't care though, because she has no heart, god never gave her one) except I don't want people to know that I'm such a mean hateful person. I was going to send her an annonymous card after I move away, but she is so freakin nuts she'd probably get the cops involved. She has already tried to get me fired over 10 times and she made another gal here quit. I'm not the only person in the company who doesn't like her. Though I don't know if there is anyone here who hates her as much as I do. She is a bully though, so no one will ever do anything about it. Some of us have even gone to our VP and human resources and they simply won't do anything to her. Anyway, if you know of a way that I can let her know what a bitch she is, that won't hurt my company, anyone else, or any property (even hers) then let me know. There are cameras all over this building too btw, so it is hard to do stuff. So sad. I don't like feeling this way. But I really do HATE her with a passion. I know I'm so horrible for hating her. I've never hated anyone in my entire life but I really do hate her.
I mean...if you're quitting anyway...you can call her a bitch right to her face if that's how you feel. I mean, what could she possibly do? LIke the above poster said, can she just be ignored. What is your and her jobs?
Yeah, I've pretty much ignored her for 5 years. At first I tried to be friends with her. Hang out, eat lunch together I even smoked up with her at her house before and we have been out drinking together. She is just a bitch. It is hard to explain her personality, but everyone who meets her just gets this bitch vibe from her. But I do ignore her. It isn't a big deal like I don't lie awake at night and think about how much I hate her. I just realized it actually when whe walked by my desk a few minutes ago. I thought, man I really hate her. I wish terrible things would happen to her, and if she died I wouldn't care, I honestly thinks she gets everything she deserves. But just thinking that made me feel like I'm a bad person. I mean we are always taught that hating people is wrong etc. And all of the "hippy" people are always like oh love everyone blah blah bs. I just can't bring myself to care about this person. She is lower than dirt to me. As far as what she has done, like I said it is hard to explain and I doubt anyone else would get it. You'll think I'm crazy or petty. You would have to experience her. She is just a mean bully. She is manipulative and controlling and opinionated and everything absolutely must go her way or she will throw a temper tantrum right here in the office. (Its actually kind of funny to watch a 32 year old throw a temper tantrum in the middle of the hall way). I mean one time I decided to eat lunch with some other co-workers who invited me to have shrimp with them, well she stomped and stormed all over the building to find out where the hell I was (like it was her business) and then she proceeded to throw my french fries around the table and throw a fit because she wasn't invited to have shrimp (because no one likes her) and then she threatened to "get us all" whatever the fuck that meant. She is constantly talking bad about someone. Either someone has worn white shoes before memorial day or someone didn't have time to do their hair properly or someone said the wrong word or made a slight typo or someone doesn't make enough money to shop at the fucking Gap. She finds reasons to make fun of everyone. Then you try to have a serious discussion with everyone at lunch and she says "I don't care about news or the world, those people don't matter to me, I'm the only one in my world. That is why I don't watch the news". Forcing the table to change the topic to something stupid like Grey's Anatomy instead of world news or real life, or anything except her. Then she had the balls to say when Katrina hit, "those people deserve everything they get. They choose to be poor and uneducated and if they die who cares, they weren't a part of society anyway". She hates men and refuses to have sex with her boyfriend (poor guy) and she is constantly screaming at him on the phone (he stays with her because he has no money and can't make it on his own, and she is very abusive to him, verbally and mentally and emotionally, so he might not even know how to get out of the situation, but that is none of my business). Personally, to me, she has gone to my boss numerous times and told her that I am stupid and that I can't do my job or that I am not doing my job and she keeps trying to find ways to get me fired. I know that because my boss told me. My boss doesn't like her either but everyone in this entire office is afraid of her. They've told me so. We can't figure out why. And when we went to human resources and told them about her being a bully, they said that they would look into it, but they didn't do anything. They never do. Just the way this company is run. She pretty much runs the entire department (she is a secretary). The Vice President of merchandising is even afraid of her. It just isn't right. And she has this annoying fake laugh, it makes my skin crawl. Boy, I've wasted entirely too much time worrying about this today. Sheesh. My only point was I hate her. it doesn't really matter why I hate her. I just do. And if it is wrong and I'm a horrible person. Well, I don't give a fuck I still hate her.
Well given all that about her seems like she has alot of problems. I would not quit my job because of one person.
Oh no, I'm not really quitting because of her. But I might consider staying had I never met her. Thing is I know she will always be here. She will never leave and do anything more with her life. Sad. She is a smart person if she spent her energy in a more positive way, she could have all sorts of great accomplishments. But that is her problem I guess. Actually, I'm quitting because I'm not really happy with what I do. I want to be a teacher. Right now I'm an assistant buyer, which means I deal with retail and sales people all day, lots of costs vs retail etc. Not really my cup of tea. I want to teach English. Or Phys Ed. And my boyfriend and I have decided to move to North Carolina, so that is really why I'm quitting. Its just like when you weigh the pros and cons of doing such things out, she shows up on the pro side of leaving and the con side to staying. I'm just happy thinking about the fact that I will never have to see her again. Yay!
You know she does sound like she has a seriouses issuse. If she doesn't like men who knows she might have been molsted or even raped. But what ever her problem/problems she's obviously not happy. And well thats the worse punishment ..or one of the worst...is not to be happy with your self. Maybe one day she'll wake up and realieze she missed out. But be the bigger person and walk away.... remember back in grade school, when a bully is bothering you walk away. Cause all they want is the attention. And I don;t know her personally, but thats what it sounds like from how you discribed her. An attention whore...exscuse my language. But I know what its like to have an uncontrollable hate... not to the point of hurting but just loathing! Your not a bad person, not likeing someone ..or hating them... isn't a bad thing unless you let it become a bad thing. Like if you where to emotionally or pyshically seck revenage upon someone then thats when problems occur and it solves nothing. Anyways I hope all works out for you, and you fallow your dream of being a teacher. peace!
