I hate for people to stare at me

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Feb 28, 2006.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I even hate for people to look at me for more than three seconds. You look...still look ...still looking... That makes me so uncomfortable. I really hate for people to watch me eat. I have this hang up how about you?
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I don't like people staring at me either. It's like, mind your own fucking business already. *growls* I don't care about people watching me eat, but I don't like using a washroom when someone can hear me pee. For some reason, the public/stall ones don't bug me, but at someone's place I always have to turn on the fan so I can't hear them and they can't hear me
     
  3. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    i dont mind...i mean,if it`s that good staring u know lol;)
     
  4. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I hate when people stare too. If they smile, it's fine, but if they just keep staring, like "duh", I usually wave. That seems to embarass them and they immediately look away. :p

    I'm used to getting stared at though, especially when I have all of my kids with me. We always draw attention.
     
  5. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I flush alot to keep people from n\knowing what I'm doing in there. I don't mind if I have a readable shirt but it dowesn't take 10 seconds to read my cleavage.
     
  6. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    I don't like people staring but I have to admitt I am a total people watcher.. haha so I quess I shouldn't care.. lol
     
  7. dmgreen

    dmgreen ~Hugz 4 All~

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    I don't mind at all. In fact I once seen these 2 guys staring at me so after about 10 min's I went over and said "Take a picture, the memory will last longer"! They were all embarassed like how did I know they were staring at me!!! LOL It was funny!
    And ya, i am a people watcher - I don't stare - but I like people in general and find everyone intersting in their own way!
     
  8. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I look at people but when everytime you look and they are looking at you then that's unsettling.
     
  9. dmgreen

    dmgreen ~Hugz 4 All~

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    I think people are just curious in general. Most people find other intersting in some way or another that is why they look or stare. I just brush it off......9 out of 10 times I will never see that person ever again anyway! :)
     
  10. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    yeah that's kinda how I see it sometimes too... especially when I was younger and Matt was even crazier.. haha and he would do something in front of a whole bunch of people I just fiqured I'd never see them again so who cares.. I've found it alittle harder to be that way now that I'm older, I want to be veiwed as "mature" sometimes, but I do have my moments when having fun means way more than what people are thinking.. Matt's amazing at bringing that out in me.. haha
     
  11. 121

    121 Senior Member

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    That always happens on underground trains. Everyone finds a spot on the train to stare at to avoid prolonged eye contact. If someone's reading a paper then everyone else reads the back of it. Sometimes you get those werid types that look at people and don't look away when they look back. I don't mind if it's a girl but if a guy tried that then I'll say something within 15 to 20 seconds (depending on my mood).
     
  12. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    oooh, I hate that, when people go against bus etiquette. Don't fucking stare on the bus, just keep your eyes forward and not locked on someone!

    I mean, I'm a people watcher too a lot of the time, but I don't stare at people, I glance at the moving batch of 'em, don't just follow someone through. Unless they're incredibly attractive, but that's pretty rare to find around here
     
  13. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i'll admit this, i stare at people for the sole purpose of watching them react to me staring at them. some people freak out, others don't care.

    at a restaurant, i'll just stare at some random person while drinking and just wait for them to react...hahaha

    i do it on the bus, train, in the library, class...
     
  14. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    If someone is staring and smiling, I don't mind...it's when they are staring and frowning that annoys me.
     
  15. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    sometimes people aren't really staring AT YOU but rather are in a sorta trance and you just happen to be there...
     
  16. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Oh I hate that. I was in London last Friday and took the tube from Leicester Square to Camden (which takes a good 10 minutes at least), and there was this one guy who just stared at me non-stop the whole time. It was so uncomfortable. And it wasn't even like he was smiling at me or anything, just staring. :confused: Anyway, when I got off the tube I stuck my tongue out at him. :p
     
  17. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i'll end up laughing once they notice that i'm staring at them a few times...but while staring at them, i'm locked on
     
  18. 121

    121 Senior Member

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    Damn, that must of sucked :eek: When I'm sitting with hot women on the tube, I glance at them for a few seconds max but thats it. The last thing I'd want to do is act creepy and make them feel uncomfortable. If they noticed me looking at them I just smile and continue reading my paper.
     
  19. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    aaha... I was staring at this guys ass the other day [​IMG] but he couldn't see me staring at him. Well, it wasn't that creepy of a stare.. it started off with "ooooh that's a nice tush" and changed into "I wonder where he got those pants, and if they'd look that good on my guy, who also has a great ass"
     
  20. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Are you one of those business people looking people who are always reading the Times in the tube? :D
     
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