I hate being a woman sometimes.

I hate peroid's, craving's. boobs hurting, pain, bloating, everything - most of all though i hate periods, they are horrible my trouser are ruined. I know they are all part of being female blaa blaa blaa but im having a fucking sex change. i dont like being a woman any more im going to call myself barry from now on.

 

Are you seriously having a sex change?

 

LOL


if only i could afford it, naa im not really gonna call myself barry - i think being a bloke can be shite as well, being people in general is shite - on saying that in my little world everything is shite at the moment.

 

yeah i can't really say that periods are my favorite thing either...

 

nah, i think Mike suits you better

 

Mike you say - mike it is

I might end up having the lonest name in the world yay

 

Wow. You seem seriously unhappy. I love being a woman. -Everything- about being a woman is a gift, including periods. You should embrace being a woman. Just think, you get to have kids and stuff.

 

You must not get any real symptoms around that time of the month. Try a few months of cramps so excruciating that you're lucky if you can stand up... Or spending a week where just about all you can do is curl up in a ball & cry because your hormones are out of whack. THEN come tell me that everything about being a woman is a gift!

And, wiggy (or is it Mike now), if I had any good drugs, I'd pass 'em your way... Unfortunately, I used 'em up on my last period!

 

well, I don't hate periods.. it's just ok. I don't even almost know I'm on my period, just a few times a day, I change a tampon, that's all. I like being a woman

 

exactly!!!

 

i hate being a woman sometimes, too. so i identify. i hate when my brain turns to mush during freakish hormonal overloads.

 

lol I get cramps that bad--it's quite simply impossible to explain them to someone who doesn't get them... sometimes I puke because they'res so bad. I usually end up either writhing or lying still in a giving-birth position with my legs spread. Or I try to create another feeling that's more intense than the cramps (doesn't really work). That being said, I still value that time. The one thing I don't like, is when I start getting stressed out about everything a week before my period. And the reason I don't like it is because I rarely attribute it PMS because it feels so... real, and I start being bitchy to people and then I feel bad about that afterward.
By the way, I'm not totally sure what you mean when you say your hormones are out of wack--do you mean during your period, or what? Because I 'curl up in a ball & cry because my hormones are out of whack,' and I'm wondering if it's for the same reasons you do?

 

My experience of that can be attributed to the pill. Before going on the pill, I had cramps like and positioned myself like you described. BUT, I never got any noticeable PMS.

Then I went on the pill... Just like everyone said, it made the cramps soooo much lighter... But, the emotional effects were intense. Seriously, for the week before my period, I had to struggle just to function... Luckily, the boyfriend for whom I went on the pill for is wonderful (cooking for me, taking care of me), or there probably would have been days when cooking even a single meal would have been too much. Clearly, I quickly went back to the doc and got switched to a pill with a lower level of hormones. Finally, on like the 4th or 5th pill, I finally don't have any major emotional problems, tho the hormone dose is too low to do much of anything to help the cramps... But, at least now I can schedule it so I don't have to miss class!

Anyway, so for me it was caused by a bad level of hormones in my bc pill... But I have no doubt that plenty of women experience that debilitating level of emotional effects naturally...

 

There are two options for you:
1) Cry about being a woman and make your life miserable for a while and feel all better later and then again at the right moment cry again.

2) Don't cry about stupid things, accept things as they are , be happy with in and share such happiness with others even when sometimes when there is a little suffering involved.

 

You hit the nail on the head!

 

I agree with Atom Bomb Therapy~ I love being a woman.... Everything it comes with and yes, I have had bad cramps.

 

oop I forgot to say that in my post... all I said was that 'I value [the painful time] too," what I meant to say in full was that I love being female even when I'm writhing.. :&

 

Thats what I'm saying. I have horrible cramps just like the next guy, but i never hate being a woman, ever. PS: Hey Miss yellowbelly. How ya been?

 

Doing great sweet stuff!! How you been? I miss seeing your pretty face, where you been hiding?

 

being a woman is beautiful.....I love it! periods can be a pain in the arse (literally) but we get to experience so many wonderful things in our body...I don't know i just see it that way now...see my thread on "your period and you" and you'll see how I feel about this and many of the other forumers (vast majority don't like their periods)