I didn't want this baby, but i'm still sad. I feel numb and guilty..I'm going to name it. I had a feeling it was a boy so I'll call him Ryder.
Yeah a miscarriage at 16 is so harsh. Im sorry to hear youve had to experience that. All things happen for a reason, but its still sad and i think its good youve named him. I hope all goes well for you in the future. Love-Maxi.Xx
i had one when i was 15. i was terrified and prayed i wasn't pregnant or that i would miscarry. i felt guilty. but i was still just a child.
I'm really sorry Peace Attack. I have gone through two miscarriages myself. My first was, unfortunately, not a baby that I was ready for at the time just as you (I was older however, almost 19), but I felt such a sadness with that loss, more emotional pain, even moreso with that one than my second one. Perhaps it was the guilt that made it harder for me. I named both of my lost babies, and even had a tribute on a loss site with their names on it as well as the dates they departed this life. You'll never, ever forget, but the pain will ease with time. Much love to you...and, I know it may sound trite, but these things happen for a reason, and for you at this point in your life, it was probably for the best. At the time of my miscarriages I felt so let-down, so depressed, so angry. But, in the grand scheme of things, it worked out for the best. My first miscarriage brought my husband (then boyfriend) and I closer, we ended up getting married a year later, and gave birth to our first son a year after that. With my second miscarriage, it was a planned pregnancy. We were ready to expand our family as our first son was going to be 3. We became pregnant immediately, but lost the baby early on. Two months later, I became pregnant again. With my twins. Peace my sister...
Oh hon, I feel for ya too. It's not easy being a teenager, let alone dealing with something as tremendous as a miscarriage. You're doing the right thing by naming that life instead of pressing it further away from your consciousness.
I am sorry to hear of you loss peace attack. I know you will overcome this time in your life. Myself personally, I have never had to go through something like that. I have had several friends who have. I will be here if you need to talk. I hope the best for you, I am also glad you named him. That keeps him in your heart....
geee...was gunna post same happened to me...I didnt neccessarily not want it, but couldnt have had it really... We used condoms AND I'm on the pill..nothing is 100% safe....
Condoms are 100% safe. I think it is easy to be safe if you want to. It is just an excuse to blame something else than yourself.
from this reply i can only assume bird has a plastic lamenated penis.. nothing gets in OR out of that thing.. good for you bird
my little brother died sorta like that but he was alive for like five minutes. im really sorry for you.
attention whore. go rape a little kid. stop impersonating a priest, im pretty sure god dont like that.
gee, read the effing box dumbass..they even say they're only 97% effective..and the pill is only 98%....learn something you little twerp...
Condoms are NOT 100% effective. This message has been brought to you by a condom-baby whose first pregnancy was from a condom incident. My mother was a condom baby. One of my best friends was a condom baby. And it's not like it takes a brain surgeon to put one of those fuckers on. They just don't always work.
