I found out someone I know wants to suck dick

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by SWRedpill, Jan 24, 2025.

  1. SWRedpill

    SWRedpill Newbie

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    Greetings

    I've been an unregistered lurker here for several years and I've enjoyed many of the posts. I've never signed up to Hip Forum until today. I check Silver Daddies from time to time. SD is kinda long in the tooth being that it's the same profiles over and over again and I've been trolled for pictures and ghosted. Needless to say never had any luck. Until yesterday. A new profile appeared with way too much info on it and I suspected I knew who it was.

    I decided to answer it even though I didn't meet his search criteria because from the info provided gave me an edge. At the time I suspected I've met, talked to, and even went to many friend group dinners where he attended. In fact he's going to be at a social function we both attend this evening.

    He responded almost immediately wanting meet up and the damn fool provided his cell number confirming his identity. We're supposed to meet tomorrow afternoon for chat only. If he doesn't know who I am he must strongly suspect now. If the meet comes to pass at the very least I'm going to educate him on being secure in his contacts.

    Anybody else ever connect with someone they know and how did you handle it. This guy is personable enough and clean. Claims this is his first contact which I'm inclined to believe knowing quite a bit of his past and poor security. Could this go badly wrong or might we become suck buddies? I'd like it to come to pass.

    Suggestions?
     
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  2. KDaddy23

    KDaddy23 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Honestly, this could be the best thing ever... or a really big "Oops!" I remember being on an app and a guy hits me up and he really, really wants to suck my dick and he's acting like he knows me, playing a little guessing game that I have never liked doing or having the patience for because in my life (at the time), I'd met so many guys so this could've been anyone and from any time. I let him know that I'm tired of the game; either tell me who you are or this conversation is over and he reveals himself and... it's a member of my church and someone I know well.

    Did we get together? No - I had too much going on with work to really find the time to get with him so we can be sexual but it wasn't a bad thing and he understood and, yeah, anytime I need a damned good blowjob, I should call him. In your situation, could it go badly? Anything's possible but you won't know - you can't know - how meeting him is going to go and more so when you're sure that you two know each other. I believe that it can only go badly if either of you take it in that direction so don't let it go there and put your heads together to figure out what you can do together - then do it and take things one moment at a time.
     
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  3. Suburbanray

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    I thought the very first guy I gave oral to was the BIL of a female friend. Didn't know him at the time,but may have been in the same party once. It was years before I saw him again, with his wife! I'm not 100% certain it was him, neither of us dared say a thing.
    However, I know for a fact I tried to date his wife online before they were married! She never acknowledged knowing me from my photo.

    I say go for it, but be prepared for the fallout if he decides to blab? As it seems neither you or him are publicly out being into men?
     
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  4. CaperRick69

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    Not exactly the same, but pretty similar to a situation i found myself in recently, except I was the one being not secure enough..

    I have had poor luck with any of those apps, probably because of low population around here, and my tight schedule for availability.
    It probably makes me a bit of a scumbag, but I go on an app anonymously and try to match with local men and women and try to get them to talk dirty to me, and it works about 20% of the time haha.
    Anyway, I recently matched with a woman that me and my wife both know a little. She's the sweetest girl ever, really good looking, and yea.....
    Turns out, she's also pretty fucking clever. She figured me out fast without much info. I literally vomited when she said my name

    We chatted on and off for a week or two, and had really nice conversations with her. She was not interested in getting between me and my wife ( figuratively or literally( i asked haha))and she says she will absolutely respect my privacy.
    The longer this went on, the more I felt like I was cheating on my wife....like more than I could ever imagine. I ended up deleting my account on there.
    It made me realize that I either need to knock it off, or not be so stupid. I'm putting a tremendous amount of faith in this woman that she will keep it to herself.

    Every encounter can possibly have some sort of negative fallout, just have to weigh the pro and cons. I think most of us here are ultimately searching for an ongoing suck buddy lol.
    Good luck.
     
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  5. thesantos29

    thesantos29 Pretty Hip

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    I have no suggestions, but can relate to your opportunity.

    I used to use Grindr. I travel for work and when I got settled into my hotel, I opened the app to see who was around.

    Then, BAM! I see a work colleague. I suspected that he was gay, but we had only talked about work stuff. His profile Pic was the same picture that he uses on LinkedIn.

    I thought, he could be only a few doors away. I could have easily texted him and tried to hook up. It seemed soo easy. We are both in relationships and we could easily keep things quiet.

    But, my analytical side came up with a ton of ways that it could complicate things.

    Plus, he's younger and takes better care of himself. If he rejected me, that would REALLY make the next few days awkward.

    So, I never acted on it or brought it up.
     
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  6. Pgbadboy

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    IMO, you should have gone for it. A very unique opportunity.
     
  7. KDaddy23

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    I'm almost 99.98% sure that I would have gone for it.
     
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  8. Barefoot Rick

    Barefoot Rick I love my dirty bare feet

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    I would have gone for it
     
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  9. iowaguy51

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    I have found my mind has messed up more possible sexcapades than i can count.I used to be bold as hell when drunk and i had lots of sex.But i sobered up many years ago and have gotten scared of things i didnt used too.
     
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  10. KDaddy23

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    I had a friend in high school who was seriously cool and all that but, one day, we'd gotten a runner to get us some booze and we kicked back in his room and got stupid drunk. I remember laying across his bed and wishing that the world would stop spinning when he got up from where he had been sitting, came to where I was lying on his bed, unzipped me, pulled my dick out, and just started sucking me until I exploded into his mouth and the only thing he said was, "Hmm. Your shit tastes good."

    He went back to the chair he was sitting in and passed out. The next day, oh, man, I wanted to ask him so bad about him sucking me off but when he was sober, yeah, he could be a mean motherfucker and I had heard the phrase "blame it on the alcohol" and, well, chalk another one up to booze. By the way, he's the reason why, to this very day, I hate gin. Anyway, I had no clue that he was a cocksucker and I'm not sure that he knew it but if he did know how he was when he got shitfaced, he never said anything about it - but hanging with him to do some drinking would guarantee that I'd be getting my dick sucked at some point...
     
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  11. Windman

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    I visited a nude beach several years ago and on one occasion saw a married guy I knew from church. Turns out when I saw him he was sucking another guys cock. A few minutes later we ran into each other with no acknowledgment of who the other was. The next Sunday he made a point of coming over to me to say good morning and looked irritated that he had been found out. I knew where he took Saturday morning walks but never purposed myself to “run into” him again. I decided I’d not complicate things anymore than they already were.
     
  12. Joshualooking2

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    Sometime reading all these make me sad so many are in the closet it just sucks
     
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  13. JS420

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    I have very mixed emotions about a situation like this. Giving a blowjob to someone I know might really mess with my head because of all the guilt and shame of M/M sex that was drummed into my head by my homophobic parents.:oops::oops::( Although, giving a blowjob to someone I know would probably be the safest situation because you know them, you know where they've been and who they've been with. I literally don't know how I would react if I went to meet up with someone to blow them or to trade blowjobs and they turned out to be a friend or someone I know well!!:eek::eek::eek::eek::oops::oops:o_O Now if I was just meeting them to get a blowjob that would be a different situation!!!
     
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  14. KDaddy23

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    Oh, I don't doubt that this situation will fuck with someone's head big time and, yeah, because of the reason it might mess with your head: All that guilt and shame laid on us guys about having sex with another guy and that means you're homosexual and all that bullshit that, logically, doesn't make sense but emotionally? Yep, if you found out that your friend "Steve" was a cocksucker - but you had no prior idea that he was even like this - sure, a lot of guys invoke "don't shit where you eat and friends don't have sex with each other" which is more bullshit when, again, you look at this logically.

    This is kinda like me and "Alan" hanging out at he decides to come out to me and when he does, well, again, I've been here before so I might be surprised by this revelation but things wouldn't get really interesting unless the reason why he came out to me is because he wants to suck my dick or he's telling me because he "knows" that I'd understand, which I would, of course. I would think that if one was to be concerned about anything is if me and Alan get to sucking each other off and he goes running around and telling everybody he knows that we did that (which I no longer give a fuck about) but that's a whole different kettle of fish. If you found out that someone you know wants to suck cock, fine - it's not like you don't know that guys who aren't gay suck cock; the question becomes interesting if you found this out and he wants to suck you, huh? If I'm using an app and there's a pic of Alan, well, damn - who knew? But it doesn't mean anything unless he's messaging you to see if you wanna do something and, um, you don't have a face pic on your profile.

    Otherwise, I wouldn't let knowing that Alan wants to suck dick bother me but if he's looking to suck mine, well, unless he gives me a reason to say no, he's going to be sucking my dick and very soon... because it's just a blowjob.
     
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  15. Pgbadboy

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    My younger bro has a great friend who is clearly gay. I approached him once. H said he never was intimate w my bro. We got together in what amounted to a gay playroom. It was great! But after that he said he was too freaked out to be with me, because of his, much longer relationship with my bro.
     
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  16. KDaddy23

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    Sigh. If you can't fuck your friends, who are you supposed to fuck? Strangers and hope they become less than strange?
     
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  17. KDaddy23

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    I've said that there are at least three "major" things that goes with this situation. The first is always "I won't tell if you won't." The second is discretion must always be honored. The third is that if you don't mind, it never matters. It shouldn't surprise someone who is already sucking dick that some guy they know also wants to suck dick because, again, it's not like none of us know that guys suck dick and that includes gay men. Just because you know this... doesn't mean anything until - and like I said yesterday - this "new guy" propositions you and wants to suck your dick. OMG - what do I do?

    I don't know about y'all but I'm getting my dick sucked and sucking his because why should he have all of the fun? Unless, of course, the other guy is my idea of an asshole but, again, knowing it means nothing. I've had my share of (a) finding out that someone I know is into sucking dick because (b) they approached me, did the tap dance around the subject, and then made the proposal and, well, just when you think you know someone, you find out that you really don't and (c) if they're okay with me, off we go to do what he said he wanted to do. Does it feel weird because you know them? Eh, it might for a moment, but it begs the question of which feeling would you rather experience? Feeling weird over something that, in truth, doesn't matter a whole lot (that friends don't fuck friends bullshit) or you're horny and here's someone who wants to suck your dick but you're just now finding out that they suck dick?

    You find out about him and once you get over your surprise, you file it away under "I Didn't Know But Now I Do" and go on about your business. If you find out about him because he's "acting all weird" and like he's trying to say something but can't get right to it, well, in my experiences, it usually means he wants to do this with you but you never put the cart before the horse so you sit, understand him, and wait for him to stop tap dancing and ask you for what he wants - and then, while he's doing that, you decide whether or not to give him your dick to suck or not. Knowing this might set up a situation where, somewhere down the road, he might be a potential sex partner or if he hits on you, he could turn into an FWB.

    But not if you're gonna act weird about it because it's someone you know. Understand that just because you know it doesn't mean you have to do anything about it... unless you want to. Then those three major things I mention come into play...
     
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    Something similar took place in the recent past between a teenage friend and me a couple years ago. We'd know each other for approx. 45-46 years at the time and were close friends to each other's families. Anyway, having lost touch with each other for some years as happened a few times I ran into him at the hardware store and decided to stop for a beer. After some time, he invited me back to his house, he'd just informed me his 2nd wife recently passed away and could use some company.

    To shorten the story, out of the blue he asked me if I'd ever gotten a blow job from another guy. I didn't know what to say and then he says, I just did the other day, and it was one of the best I ever had. I chuckled a bit and said, yeah, I've had a few myself. The subject matter of the conversation quickly changed as there was a football game on TV. Let me add, he and I when we were teenagers, were individually having sex with the same neighborhood girls and knew he had a big cock because the girls would tell me mind was big but his was even bigger. After a couple more beers I brought up the subject of blow jobs from guys again.

    I asked if he's ever sucked another guy's dick to which he said no, what about you? I replied that I had and if you are interested, I'll give you one right now. Well, he stood up, dropped his pants and sat back down to say "Go for It! Between his legs I go and start sucking his cock and balls to see his cock is much bigger than my 8", a good ten inches as I proceeded to give him a deep, sloppy blow job and after about 20 minutes he released his load, and I swallowed it all. He was impressed. I'd been wanting to suck his cock for many years and finally got to do so. Sadly, he passed away some four months later.
     
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  19. KDaddy23

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    Wow, that sucks (no pun intended).
     
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  20. TheRetiredGuy

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    The older I get the more I realize just how many men my age are bisexual. About 25 years ago I discovered that I like to suck cock and swallow cum
     
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