I finally got asked out!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by stacy lulu, Jan 13, 2011.

  1. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    i'm very satisfied with this one. he asked me out at the perfect time too. Last week I was arguing over bullshit with the guy i was using for sex with. He kept pushing me away when I wanted sex, saying im busy, all this. so I figured there was another girl involved. I was all sad cause I dont really like looking for another guy. Well later on he really hurt my feelings (whats new) and my boyfriend text me saying whats up/ told him I was upset and Im sick of assholes. and That life wants me to change and find a great guy. 5 mins later I get a text saying stacy do you wanna be my girlfriend?

    I almost passed out. Thats the first ask out in 2.5 years for me. Knowing he was a great and funny guy on our first date, I said yes.

    Ever since we've been compromising, learning that we have more in common. He makes me feel good, doesnt call me a bitch or psycho. actually says im great

    and I learned that the last guy is starting to like a girl (after telling me he doesnt ever want a gf and women are crazy) so its the best timing. perfect timing.

    Im still not use to be treated so good. Im so use to assholes, its really sad. He offers help, money, takes me out without me having to ask. I deny most of the time being independent but its nice to have someone that cares. I give him his space and freedom. visa versa. I think I found a good guy. thats all i really wanted. :)
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    so you were using this other guy for sex and were pissed at him for treating you like a fuck buddy?
     
  3. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    It's good that you found a decent guy and things are going well so far. Hopefully, after a little bit of a respectful relationship you'll lose your tolerance for assholes. :)
     
  4. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    underwear--- it been 3 weeks this was going on. it was always "im busy" and when i asked when was a free daty he'd say "i dont know" so i got mad and got rid of him



    duck-- oh yes its gonna take some time to get use to. i def went from a zero to a hero
     
  5. thedope

    thedope glad attention Lifetime Supporter

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    She said, will you leave please.
     
  6. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    It's the same pattern of events every time. You could set your watch to it.
     
  7. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    yeah ok sam. its been 2 years since i met a guy nice as this. no pattern here. just been worth the wait ;)
     
  8. jacobfredjo

    jacobfredjo Senior Member

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    congrats! wish I had a gf right now
     
  9. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    I hope so
     
  10. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor


    I highlighted the funny parts:mickey:
     
  11. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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