So me and my wife was about to have sex she got undressed as did I and she turned around and bent of for doggy style and I seen that apparently she didn’t wipe good enough and there was missed poop so I still stuck it in but I couldn’t really be in the moment bc all I was thinking about and seeing is the poop I told her I couldn’t do it that I was sick to my stomach and I avoided sex for the past 2 weeks I just can’t seem to see her in a way that turns me on idk what to do
Install a bidet OR a bidet attachment onto your toilet. They are cheap and easy to install. I have both and cannot live without it.
You need to tell her what you told us. That what you found really has affected your desire to have sex with her. It's something she needs to know. Let her know gently that you are turned off by the lack of cleanliness of her body. It's not that you don't want to make love to her but that you don't want to fuck into a pile of shit either. It's real hard for obese people to clean themselves down there sometimes. You may have to offer assistance to help her get ready. If I remember you both are pretty heavy. She needs to be clean and know that's a must before you slide your cock into the back door. The bidet suggestion or using the shower after bathroom duties are done will help.
I would have told her right away. Babe, you missed some while wiping so please go take care of that and hurry back.
