i dunno if im stright or bi or gay!!!

i have a gf, and i love girls....
i started watchin shemale movies
and then gay movies...
now i show on cam...
yesterday i shaved my ass, and i stick things in it....
but i still love girls
and after i cum watching gay movies, i feel bad!!!!
can u help me??
badboytha@yahoo.com

 

I do exactly the same sorts of things. I have and have had a girlfriend for the last 4 years now who I am attracted to and who I love fully.

I frequently watch shemale porn movies and occasionally gay porn movies, i went through a short phase years ago of putting things in my ass but it didn't last long and i soon lost interest.

I have had one experience with a guy and this was while I was with my current girlfriend, I felt dirty after the event at the time but soon got over that and still occasionally masturbate to the thought of the whole thing again.

Personally I don't worry about whether I might be gay or not, I am attracted to women and attracted to my girlfriend and as long as that is the case then I don't believe I have a good enough reason to worry. I don't really find men attractive, the only thing I find attractive are their penis' hence why I watch shemales a LOT.

My advice to you would just be to enjoy it, you probably are straight or straight enough to continue a straight lifestyle, so what if you get off on watching men/shemales aswell, everyone has different turn ons.

 

My brother is the exact same way. We talk about everything and he has an awesome collection of she male porn. He wants to meet a tranny and find out what it's like. But he identifies as a straight man. As someone who is in the spectrum somewhere between bi and gay, I don't understand the allure of a woman with a penis. But I don't think it's anything to worry about. And a lot of straight dudes like the feel of something inside of them. Even if you asked your girlfriend to finger you while you're having sex, that doesn't mean you're bi or gay. You're man. We men--straight, gay, bi, other--are freaks when it comes to our sexual fantasies. Njoy!!

 

i do the same thing. ive been married going on four years and my wife uses several toys on me well in me but it used to bother me the things in my head or what i do to myself or have her do but i accept it thats how i am

 

hey,
i wouldn't worry about having to conform to a particular sexual orientation (just because it makes you feel safe or as though you belong?). it sounds almost exclusive and that's pretty lame. if i were you i'd probably experiment more. trust me. you'll learn so much more about yourself. what's important to remember however is that you should be very wary not to confuse base sexual attraction with emotional/soul connection and be honest with yourself.

i consider myself to be something of a straight wannabe as it were. i've experimented with girls and guys. and honestly i prefer guys. i still feel to a certain extent as though i may identify best as bisexual but after i remind myself of how vain and narcissistic i am i realise my self delusions. that said though, i really enjoy sex with girls and i'm pretty fucking good at it too but there's no "soul connection" which i have with guys, soon enough you'll know exactly what that means.

all of the rhetoric aside have some great adventurous safe sex and see what you enjoy most. all you need to think about while you're having sex with whoever it may be is how much you're enjoying it. don't think about what your girlfriend, parents, guy friends, the rest of society, etc. would think of it. just find out what clicks with you the best and if it turns out to be something you're uncomfortable with identifying as (and boy do i know what that feels like) then get help to accept it (it can take time). but do NOT bullshit yourself about which-ever way you feel sexually inclined. denial is so regressive!

just don't think too much about it and do it and don't judge yourself or freak out. just treat it all as a huge learning experience.

hope this helps,

happy fucking!

 

same here..im curious!

 

I love girls too but I also enjoy sucking cocks and occasionally getting fucked in the ass. Don't worry about it. If you like it, go with it.
Guilt comes from all of the bullshit we're often raised with. You can get past that if you find you enjoy m2m sex.

 

Someone once told me that everyone is fractionally attracted to girls and boys. So essentially you could be say 60% gay. (Everyone has their own number and it can change over time)

I don't know if I agree with this theory but I thought I would throw it out there.

I don't understand why everyone makes *such* a big deal about a label.. who cares if you're 'homo' 'heterosexual' 'bisexual' ect. Just do what YOU'RE comfortable w/.