Ok, so you're probably not going to believe me, but I don't get turned on by masterbation (except if a girl does it) and don't do it. I have a high sex drive, no trouble getting an erection and no medical problems. I was hanging out with a girl the other day and we were kissing and she let me feel her up, and I got blue balls soooo bad! It hurt for about 24 hrs! So painful! I just come back from the GP (about this problem) and she was hopeless!! She had no advice and booked me in with a male doctor on Monday! Is there something wrong with me? I just don't get turned on by myself and in return get blue balls whenever I hang around a girl! I only get off when a girl has sex with me or pulls me off. Plus I don't have a girlfriend, so it's rare that I get off anyway! What should I do? I don't want to wank though.. Advice please!
We had no where to go! We were in a park... But that still doesn't help enough with my problem. Thanks for the quick reply though
Don't they have short time rooms in your country? Or were you just broke? $8 an hour, large double bed, air-con, mirrored walls and ceiling, TV, showers, free mouthwash, soap and shampoo, curtained parking space.
I don't have troubles turning girls on though.. And it's my only relief being with a girl. Plus that's ok, Glen. You don't have to believe me, but I wouldn't of gone through the embarrassing moment of asking a doctor about it if I didn't have to :'(
You get frustrated, and are driven made by the need to have sexual activity (sex or masturbation) but you're balls do not go blue!!! Th answer is simply - masturbate and get over it
I suggest you stop thinking about masturbation being a thing of choice or a thing to cause orgasm. It's a practice required for a man's well-being; mental, physical and sexual. The cure for your situation is to masturbate. There's nothing wrong with it. (subject to excess).