i dont know what i am... can anyone help?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by -moonshine-memi-, Mar 28, 2007.

  1. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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    okay.. so... i used to be straight... then i said i was bi.. and now i just dont know.
    okay .. so.. i have only ever had a serious relationship with guys...
    but i think women are so much sexier and i fantasize about women... and i have probably made out with more females than males. i would like to sleep with a girl...
    but i dont see myself haveing a loving relationship with a girl.
    ...

    girls totally turn me on. even more than guys perhaps.

    but i wanna end up with a guy...

    i am not concerned with putting myself into a particular category...
    i am just curious what this makes me?
     
  2. coldfuru

    coldfuru Member

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    I think I'm pretty much in the same situation as you, when people ask me what my orientation is I say "confused"
     
  3. Relic

    Relic Coming Unhinged

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    That is fitting for several of us though I have chosen to just say I am Bi instead of confused. I guess that is just easier for me.
     
  4. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    probably bi, but really.... does it matter? i mean, do you really need to label/box yourself into a certain descriptor? just be who you are, fantasize over who you want to, fuck who you want to, and end up with who you want to end up with
     
  5. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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  6. DirtyVibe

    DirtyVibe Member

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    never mind
     
  7. Relic

    Relic Coming Unhinged

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    Good point!
     
  8. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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    i am pretty sure i said that... i am not concerned with puttting myself into a particular category.
    i dont really need to know... i just was kinda curious and confused as to what soceity would like to put me as
     
  9. l-foote

    l-foote L not i.

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    just be you. don't worry whether you're gay, straight or bi.

    "but i dont see myself haveing a loving relationship with a girl."
    you won't know that until you fall head over heels for a woman, love the person, not the gender.
    i always said i could never have a relationship with a women, because it would be weird. but when you get down to it, how weird is it? theres no reason not to enter a relationship with someone you love just because they are the same sex as you.

    ummm i had something else to say but i forget now because i got distracted
     
  10. honeyfugle

    honeyfugle pumpkin

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    i agree with all the above. sometimes my sexuality confuses me, but in the end i just say "ahhh who cares". sexuality doesnt really matter when it comes down to it. being yourself is what makes you special.
     
  11. whichaxe

    whichaxe Member

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    people over parts.
     
  12. lddhr

    lddhr Member

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    The above is exactly what I want to say!
     
  13. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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    :)

    this all makes perfect sense
     
  14. l-foote

    l-foote L not i.

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    glad it brought a smile to your post :)
     
  15. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    moonshine.. 1st off screw labels..
    me i personaly only like girls.. but then why am i responding in a bisexual forum// because nothings ever 100%.. youy can say your 100% straight, or gay but your only fooling yourself,
    dont worry bout the labels or what other ppl would call you..just be happy being you loving who you love & fantasizing bout who u fantasize about
     
  16. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    I think it was freud who said that on the kinsey scale from 0 to 6...from gay to straight...and he said that most people were not a 0 or a 6, but always somewhere in between... :)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
     
  17. lddhr

    lddhr Member

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    interesting, let me have a look, anyway, thank you first!
     
  18. kristian4o

    kristian4o Banned

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  19. ItzJessI3itch

    ItzJessI3itch Banned

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    I think that how a lot of girls feel before they experiance it, personally I feel the same way. I think it just make you bi-curious. That's what I consider myself being.
     
  20. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    You're sexual. As most people will say here, labels are overrated.
     

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