I dont know if this is a stupid question or what...

but is there anyone here, that you know youre gay however uve never even dated or kissed anyone of the opposite sex? and u never intend to? lol am i crazy cuz thats how i am.

 

From 1st to 4th grade I had 1 or 2 "girlfriends", A.K.A. glorified friends at that age. I've never kissed anyone of the opposite sex, and I don't plan to. I don't want to date the opposite sex either.


I like your signiture...

 

i like it too thats why its there lol.

but ive never even met a another gay guy, ive only seen the ones in the tv shows lol, and they always seem to date girls before they find out there gay,(degrassi lol) iunno i just thought it was weird i guess cuz ive never kissed, dated or done anything with girls, i never do want to.

 

eh...I think a lot of gay guys have never kissed a girl before, I know I haven't. It doesn't seem necessary for discovering your true sexuality.

hahah I was gonna compliment his sig too...

 

I've kissed several girls... but all before 5th grade. I haven't kissed any since. I still have yet to go on my first date as well, with either guy or girl.

 

ive kissed girls before, yeah. up until i was 15. but theni realized i had no sexual desire towards girls, and all the tiems i kissed were times that seemed liekit was what i was suppoesd to do. i dnno.
but i know im gay.
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I think it depends on how well you know yourself regardless if you have or haven't kissed someone of opposite/same sex.

 

I've kissed girls before. And even though I'm gay, I must admit I liked it when it happened...

Band camp, 2003, I was 14. Her name was Anne, and we both liked each other, and at a dance, after a slow dance, we kissed. It was nice.

Spring 2005? Some friends and I were on the couch in my basement watching I Heart Huckabees, and this one girl who was there and I both "liked" each other (I wanted to like someone, so I liked her. ). Yeah, and that happened.

Summer 2005, one of my best friends, and her friend, both of whom are bisexual girls, were making out on my trampoline in the rain. They kind of dragged me in, and at that point I had known that I was definitely bi, not sure if I was gay though. Either way that was really fun.

Gay Prom, 2006 (Yes there's a gay prom. No, I wasn't out at that point). This girl asked me to dance, and I didn't know that "dance" meant "choke-you-with-my-tongue." So we were dancing and she basically make-out-raped me. And that was sort of the moment that I knew I was definitely gay, because if I were straight, I would have been SOOOO fucking turned on. She was doing some things that I know would be really hot, and I knew that if that were a guy kissing me in that moment, I would have been... WOW. But it wasn't.

So yeah, I could say I've gotten some straight action. But I think it's because that's what I thought you're supposed to do when you're young. Ya know? Then I realized I'm gay and then WOAH that changed.

 

If that makes you crazy, I'm very crazy. I suspect that most gay people who date or kiss someone of the opposite sex are experimenting or trying to change. If you feel the way you do, don't date or kiss anyone of the opposite sex.

 

I've hooked up with girls before. If there are no strings attached and they know it, why not?

I kiss girls fairly often. I like making out, it's fun, whether it's a male or female.

I have had "threesome kisses" with two girls before. It's all in fun. They know I'm gay and they're straight.

I had been with a few females before I had gotten with a man. I wasn't experimenting or "trying to change", I have always known I was gay. I don't know, when I've been drinking I just enjoy kissing.

 

well, i'm 20yr gay and i've never kissed any1. i actually mean no1 at all
thing is that i was in a closet for all my life and i still am coz my friendz and parents ane really f***ing homophobic. and, i feel kinda sick when i'm even thinkin about kissin with girl. i'd rly like to try once but i don't think i'm gonna enjoy that