I don't know if I have ever had an orgasm, is this silly if I dont know??

Everyone says that you will definitely know if you have had one but I am not sure!

However I think I may be be having them but I havent been realising it lol!

It gets to a point where the guy is in really deep and he keeps pounding away and I moan A LOT!!! And then it starts to get really intense and its like I cant take it anymore and I have to push him away!

Also I get really wet down there and it feels very slippery and the guys notice that too. They said it feels like a gush of water lol!

So am I on the brink of having an orgasm but it just gets too intense for me and I stop myself from having one??? Or is that how an orgasm actually feels???

 

Close, but no cigar.

 

I think you're getting right up to it and quitting. When you get that uncontrollable shake and the whole world just turns warm and soft, you've orgasmed.

 

Orgasm isn't something you'll miss !!!

You'll know when you've had one.

 

There are different types of orgasms. Congratulations, you are capable of experiencing, what most women can't, a squirting orgasm. I am a squirter myself, and from your description its sounds like your G-spot gets stimulated to a point where you feel the squirting orgasm, which is not the same as G-spot orgasm (that one combined with squirting orgasm, will knock you out and you will be hooked forever). Anyway what I am saying is, that you should keep trying getting the 'normal' orgasm, try playing with your clit, that helps a lot, and try a different position before it gets to a point where it gets uncomfortable. When I squirt it feels like a little orgasm, but it is by far not as intense as I get other orgasms. What happens when you masturbate? Does it feel the same? And how do you masturbate, what kind of toys are you using?

 

Have you ever tried masterbating to bring yourself to orgasm? That's probably the best thing you can do so you can get comfortable with yourself and not feel embarrassed in front of anyone until you know what to expect.

 

My wife pushes me away when she's had enough to from stimulating her too much or just after she's had an orgasm.
Possibly she also thinks she needs to go to the bathroom & to get her to squirt during sex is possibly not wanted by her - soaking the bed etc.
Embarrassing for her but not for me.

 

It is possible to become overstimulated. For me an orgasm feels like my entire pubic region is shuddering and my hips buck uncontrollably. It just feels really... good. I would have to say: embrace the sensation. If you squirt, be a squirter! If it feels so good you might burst, hell then burst! Just be you. It doesn't really matter if you know you're having an orgasm, as long as you enjoy yoursef and feel good. Hopefully I helped a bit.

 

It's somewhere between life and death...it's an altered state...like getting high...or maybe that's just me? I remember not knowing for sure...my body would squirt but my mind, my essence wouldn't be in...it is complete comfort and then completely letting go...it is bliss no matter how temporary, everything stops to bring in that feeling...that is an orgasm...