so i'm 19 years old, female, only ever been with men, but but the part of sex that i look forward to the most is oral and i don't like dominance the man has during sex. not to mention i love soft smooth curves and long flowing hair... i think that i've been barking up the wrong tree (literally). latly during sex i just get bored and want my partner to get off and be done. i feel that's not healthy sexuality. my friend recomended i try searching girl for girl sites, but i feel like that's sketchy. he met his boyfriend like that tho so maybe i should give it a try? i'm really just confused and suck at the dating game in general so how am i supposed to play on a team i've never practiced with? does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can ease my way into this? or if i shouldn't ease myself into it and just jump in with both feet, sink or swim? i guess the most frustrating thing is i definatly feel affection towards men, just when it comes down to it i'd rather just roll over and go to sleep. one of my favourite quotes is from the steven sondheim (i spelled it wrong) play Into the Woods and goes like this But how can you know what you want till you get what you want and you see of you like it? All i know is what i want most of all is to know what i want" if anyone has any feedback it would be much appreciated!
Haha, I just saw my friend in "Into the Woods." I absolutely loved it. As far as your current predicament, I really don't know what to say. Perhaps you should try looking at some pictures of girls online and see if you're attracted to them or not.
