I don´t know what to think of in order to get horny!

My problem is that I dont know how to get real horny. I think this is the reason why I cant orgasm. I know it bothers my boyfriens way more than it bothers me vut I would like to be able to just to make him happy. I think Im physically ready. Help me out.

 

Ok...out of every man on earth, who would you MOST enjoy fucking?

 

If you can't get horny then you aren't ready to have sex, why would you do it if you're not interested? It will develop on it's own someday, don't worry about it.

 

Perhaps you haven't started "exploring" yet.....or, once you start, staying focused and not getting distracted. If that sounds a little vague now, it'll become clearer later.

 

I agree with honeyhannah, you probably arn't ready, the reason you arn't orgasiming is because you're not comfortable, I don't know if it's with yourself or the guys you're with but you should just wait till the right guy and then everything will flow perfectly.

 

maybe you just can't get into it cuz you're thinking too much. That's been my problem in the past. Just try to free your mind and allow yourself to feel everything. Don't think about the feelings, just feel them. I know that sounds kinda dorky, but my bf helped me with that, and it gets my into the mood better than anything else!
Or it could also be what the other people suggested. maybe you're not ready and feel insecure. that'll do it, too.

 

Actually I have a wonderful loving boyfriend and I couldn´t think of anyone else who I´d prefer fucking. And I don´t think I could get excited by just looking at a guy... I enjoy giving but maybe I have a problem receiving. Usually if he´s doing somethink with me I just have my mind on him all of the time. He suggested I should try to learn to have fantasies and try to develop them. But I don´t know WHAT I should think of to start off. Before I had sexual experiences I used to think of sex scenes I had seen in movies etc. but nowadays the same things don´t really affect me because I know what it feels like in the real life.

Thanks for your tips. Many useful ones.

Paz

 

Are you on BC? Sometimes they make you depressed and less horny.

 

Have you ever tried role playing? It really can heat things up!

 

yes, anti depressants do that too. unless that's what she meant, but i think that means birth control