I made a big mistake about 5 months ago. I didn't technically lie to my boyfriend, i just never told him the whole story and i felt so guilty, and the guilt just grows as time goes on. Anyway he found out last night and he was angry and upset with me, i kept appoligizing (worst night ever!!) and this morning he said he forgave me but he is still hardly talking to me and i still feel guilty. i think i deserve a hard spanking, but we've never done that before, i dont know what to do. please help anyone!
Yer a unpleasant person. I thought you needed a spanking in a sexual way. Bloddy hell Here i wuz gonna be all sayin sumthin clever and funny (to sum, i believe) like i do, and i get this.. Thats why there is that we use [RANT] So we are worned.. :cuss:
it's hard to really say anything if we don't know what you actually did. you probably deserve the silent treatment he's giving you, i suppose.
Well hun it really depends on what you have done, and what you mean by a "hard spanking", some people mean a trip over the knee, I mean a savage beating, lol. How old are you, Have you been spanked for punishment before, when and how, and as dd or was it parental? You need to know exactly what you are asking for, and let's not forget, how do you think you man will respond to your request. I am very experienced in this area and it can go a lot of ways. Personally I would go to him and explain that although he forgave you, you feel very guilty for what you did and for lying to him, and you think he needs to punish you to ensure you know it is not ok to do that, and to make you feel you have really been forgiven. Tell him you feel it is necessary, and then go into what you want him to do. Bare your bottom and bend over or go over his knee, etc. Tell him you want his hand or a belt or a hairbrush etc, and how hard you think ou deserve it. Or you can do as I do and surrender completely, leaving it up to him to spank you as hard as he wants and you have no say in it like a real punishment. Or do that but have a safe word. Be sure he knows to do it hard enough to fulfill you, but not surpassing your outer limits. You see, there are a lot of variables, and the whole situation, your past experience, your comfort zone, his comfort zone, what you think you need vs what he thinks is fair can all impact it. Tell me more and I might be able to give you some pointers, I have been spanked about every way you can be for punishment and for pleasure
