i couldn't believe it....

I used to hang out with this guy who I thought was really sweet, but unfortunately he was only looking for sex I told him that I cant not only have sex with you . And after that he started to talk with my cousin and wants to be friend with her , he told her how beutiful she is ...

Its werid he never used these words to me not only once even when he asked me many times for sex . I told him why he was talking with my cousin he said "why cant I do it , its not like she is your daughter" and please let me to talk with her" .

I still dont understand why he is hitting on my cousin even they re not living in same state.?? What exctly he wants ? He also told me cousin that I didnt treated him very well.

 

just make sure your cousin knows what's going on x

 

Yeah tell her. He just wants sex from you and who knows maybe he thinks you'll get jealous and give in...sounds like that's what he wants. Just keep being a honest with him as you were, NFW and he'll fuck off. At least he didn't lie, give him credit for that.

 

Yah I think he just wants me make jealous, because he said many times when I saw her picture was so beautiful and what is the point if I talk to her? He is such asshole but why you want my cousin...

 

He is classic LOL He picked your cousin because you know her, easy for him to show his affection in front of you. Sorry, hey maybe you get a classic sweety next time.

 

I think he's trying to get you jealous.

 

Just get used to it they are all cunts unless they prove otherwise then you will be fine and not disappointed :2thumbsup:

 

OMG! A man who wants to have casual sex! Hide yo kids! Hide yo wife!

 

Heh. I do when I want Casual sex..

 

Long distance relationships are goldmines for guys who just want sex. They can act like they are the good boyfriend type -- meet once, and never talk again.

 

i feel like i should defend the guy because it feels like you're pissed at him for liking you, but i can't comprehend your post well enough to really have a good grasp on the situation.

 

The only think he wanted was sex and he also told me that i will regret if i'm not having sex with him. How can I start to like a guy if he only ask me for sex and never say beautiful words to me and not be friendly.

 

Its simple, he just wants sex exclusively....you don't want just sex = won't work. Move on...the guy was honest, thank him for that so you won't be fooled. Some guys are douche bags and they will act like they really are into you, then fuck you and gone.

 

why did you used to think he was really sweet if the only words he ever said to you were "let's fuck?"

 

Because I was stupid and I didnt know from the begin he wants sex. Usually guys said first to girl but I was the first who did and I thought maybe he is not used to say beautiful words to girls. But when I heard him what he said about my cousin . I was surprised.. and its fine he didnt said to me except he only wants sex but why he is telling me how beautiful my cousin is ...

 

I never knew it was ok to just ask a girl for casual sex and be seen as a good quality cause I'm being 'honest'. lmao!

 

What's wrong with asking for sex? What's wrong with honest? I asked guy for sex only, nothing was wrong.

 

ofcourse its nothing wrong to ask somone for sex and he was honest with me told me he only wants sex and I'm not complaining... what I dont like why he flirting my cousin and tell me how beautiful is she

 

It sounds like he has a crush on your cousin.
From what you've said he doesn't seem a bad guy - he was honest and just because he only wanted sex with you doesn't mean he can't be a great (even "nice") boyfriend to the right person.
He obviously isn't your boyfriend. What you two have is a casual relationship with no strings attached. You knew right from the start that one day he'll find a girl he likes more. Does it even matter who that girl is?

Jealousy has no place here. If you can't handle being a fuck buddy don't be one.

 

if you don't want to have sex with him

he is perfectly within his rights to go elsewhere.

so if he wants to hump your cousin

who are you to judge??

up to him if he wants to be a 'dog' or not

not everyone wants a relationship.