I Can Be Such A D/A Sometimes...:(

Tonight at work, I had this gorgeous guy flirting with me...and you know what I did? I ignored him, even though that wasn't what I was wanting to do. God help me, I do it every time...ARRGH.

 

what's a D/A?

and i do that too.. it's become second nature i think since i usually have a bf and hate to think of HIM flirting with other ppl... maybe if you start flirting first with ppl.. get used to it and all that, it'll come more naturally... are you shy? is that why you were ignoring him?

 

D/A to me is dumb ass...lol. And yes, I am shy face to face with people; it's not that I have a low self esteem or anything, I just don't quite know how to act. And I don't know what I was ignoring him...it's like this defense mechanism that kicks in everytime to keep me from getting hurt again I think. I've been burned badly and alot.

 

I fucking agree! I will talk nicely back to the people but I make it a point to bring up my boyfriend

 

haha me too emily...

ashton's mom... i think if you work on your shyness in general you'll see that you're more open to flirting. try to talking to old ppl first.. lol, then gradually get more open with ppl your own age! hehe it really does help though...

 

Thanks for the advice...and as far as I'm concerned, everyone can just call me Heather. lol

 

Heather I use to be real shy but then one day I realized it is way easier to just be myself then being worried about what others thought of me.

 

i ignore everyone who tries to talk to me...unless they offer me can goods...

 

Another Heather! I'm a Heather too!

 

im pretty damn shy but i flirt alot.. i think its easier for me to be around people when thier smiling and well when i flirt i look like a spaz so yea people smile