I am 30 and never had a girlfriend

Will I keep living this way until I die?

 

NO NO NO Grandy. x

 

What did you mean by No?

 

I mean you WILL find a Girlfriend.

 

No way man, there is always somebody out there waiting and this year may be your year.

 

I lost my virginity at 30. You're not the only one. I thought I'd die alone too but happily married now for almost 6 years with a 6 month old son. It'll happen for you.

 

Yes. It is written.

 

Not if you do something about it .

 

such as?

 

I'm guessing the responses will be things like just get out there and talk to women and be yourself and you'll find someone. That kind of advice was not helpful to me when I thought as you do. I thought I was a great guy that could make someone very happy but I wasn't confident or flashy and no one ever bothered to take the time to get to know me. Although true, no amount of telling me to go out and meet people made me feel any better about myself.

 

Are you in a relationship now?

 

Well, for starters, be careful what you wish for, you might end up getting it. Simply getting a girl does not yet mean you've won the game. You also have to know how to handle her. If it doesn't work out between you two, having a GF could be more trouble than it's worth. In particular, break-ups can be nasty affairs and will hit you hard emotionally. And even before that, are you willing to invest in her? Buy gifts? Take her to mutual vacations? Shared home and money? Listen to her open up about her own problems on a bad day? What will you do, if you knock her up (babies)?

These are important questions that you need to think about, before you actually get involved with someone. If you just desperately wanna get your rocks off, buddy, a hooker comes cheaper, and doesn't call you back later. Certainly don't get a GF just to show her off to your mates as a trophy, and a proof that you made it.

 

Yeah, this is actually very UNhelpful, if you're one of those unlucky individuals, who simply have nothing going for them, and therefore appear unappealing to the opposite sex precisely by being their unattractive selves. All it takes is an ugly face, or a disability that you had no control over, and you're done. Your game will be forever over. Unless you reach for the ol' wallet and fork over to somebody who accepts those kinds of deals. You gotta play the hand that was dealt to you, but for some, there's simply no winning.

 

Dude girlfriends are overrated, high maintenance, too demanding, always late, always forgetting her purse, or always losing her keys,

Buy yourself a dog or better yet a rescue a dog from an area shelter for some companionship

 

Have you been to the grocery stores lately on a Friday or Saturday night ? The place is packed with girls walking alone dressed and smelling really nice. Get your self a nice haircut put on some nice clothes and some nice cologne and go shopping.
I’m a believer in the - “If you look good you feel good if you feel good you will do good” idea.

 

Spot on mate

 

Creating more threads about finding love is not trying the advice we have all offered you in the previous threads about finding love. For an example Grandeur... We need you to get your self a nice haircut put on some nice clothes and some nice cologne and go shopping on this occasion.

 

That does work . I have had a small blonde ( before lockdown) follow me all over the supermarket .

 

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Having been born in Middle East makes it harder, huh?