I am 24 yrs old and...

I do not know anything about relationships. My mother and father were both in the military so growing up I moved all over and never really was able to get a relationship going. After school I got my CDL license and started driving tractor trailers which I continue to do today.

I think the life I have chosen, long periods away from home, and a nomadic lifestyle has left me screwed. I have a nice apartment, a car, I make very good money, yet at 24 yrs old I have never had a girlfriend at all, never even kissed one, and I am still a virgin. I do not like the bar scene, and I cannot help that I will lead to one very lonely life. Also does not help im slightly overweight.

So here is my confession, think yours was bad?

 

You are making money, got a place and have a car, sounds like you are on the right track at least. I don't know why you would come and appeal to a bunch of hippies with this stuff though as if we're the best source of information regarding relationships.

 

Its a confession board and figured I would post mine.

My confession is Im afraid I will end up like "The 40 Year Ols Virigin"

 

You don't have to meet women at bars.
Meet women in places that reflect your interests. If you like reading, go to a bookstore, if you like flying kites, go to a park.
There is never going to be a women who just one day magically shows up on your doorstep and asks you to be with her, you have to actually seek them out.

 

Hey man, dont feel bad, I got no apartment, no car, no money. Chicks dig that stuff. I may have been with quite a few girls, but I cant make anything last. I'd say, try to get fit, go out and meet some chicks like, by going to school, or volunteering or getting a job that has girls working there, just whatever. If your religious, go to a church (NOT my type of thing) But theres lots of like, er.. less experienced girls at churches, ya know, more understanding to your current situation. I gotta say tho, dont like invest too much emotion into girls at first, cause I mean, you gotta get some pratice kissing and sexing it up and stuff, so like dont let them go to your head, just try to get out there and start gaining experience, its never too late, and I mean hell, its not too hard once you start. Good Luck. Btw, after awhile, you might just find you're better off alone or just hitting up some slut for random sex. Just try to learn to show what you got goin on and try to lose that extra weight. If its important enough to ya, Im sure you can motivate yourself.

 

Relationships suck anyways.

 

Don't try to pick up chicks by flying kites... Terrible advice neo.

 

Lol.

 

craigslist

 

It's an example. How is meeting people through doing activities you enjoy terrible advice?
If you like to drink, then go to bars and you will meet girls that also like to drink.
If you like to fly kites, go to a park and you'll meet girls that also like to fly kites. Boom, you automatically know you share interests, and you also have something to talk about.

 

neo dont waste your time.

 

You're absolutely right, he should take this down to the local park and the women will come flocking.

I was kind of joking with you but kite flying seems more like something to do when you're already in a relationship.

To the op you can use craigslist, dating sites, coffeshops/bookstores like neo mentioned. You can even go to a park to just walk around, the fact you are outside and exercising somewhat and embracing the outdoors can be appealing, you don't always need a kite or gimmick. Hiking/trails, Malls, movies.

Even if there is a girl you got a crush on that is like a waitress, or works in retail or out in the public you can ask out.

If you are looking to lose your virginity probably the internet or like a bar scene would be your best bet (not hipforums though, these girls are classy), if you are looking to establish a relationship then there is really many possibilities. Just ask a girl out somewhere and get to know her and don't make your virginity or lack of experience regarding relationships the first thing you bring up or the focus of conversation.

 

at least you can afford a hooker.

 

Well if you have a nice pad, nice vehicle and some cash, a nice female should not be too hard to scare up. Making yourself available is important and it would not hurt to get yourself into shape although not mandatory. As others have said get out there and meet people, do that and you will find that you meet people in the weirdest places, but if you dont get out there it will never happen. Just go do the things you enjoy and you will be surprised by who you meet. I've always found that when your not really looking for someone is when they come along.

 

Get a little dog.

No word of a lie, I met both my last girlfriends in the woods and in a field. The formers dog basically tried to eat mine, and then we sat around and spoke under the sunshine- was all very nice.

My sister makes me walk her little yorkie now and again and this dog, as gay as it is, is a babe magnet

 

I third this...

 

i'm relieved to hear that i'm going to meet the love of my life while sitting on my couch and playing video games.

 

I'm sure you have already met her, she's just tied up controlling the paddle of a video game

 

Hah, i'minmyunderwear gives his victims the pleasure of still playing xbox when tied to a chair in his basement

Charming.

 

I was thinking its either the right or left hand