I’m straight but think sexually about men

Ok I don’t know if I’ve posted in the right forum or not but this is my first post.
Basically im a guy 21 who has had plenty of girlfriends and dreams of marrying the perfect wife and have kids in the future. Since a younger teenager I have been sexually attracted to females but have sexual thoughts about males. My parents are from the old school and don’t think it’s right too be gay or a homosexual how ever that’s not my concern. I’ve never done anything with another guy before only girls and I’m unsure if I should try it or not..... I know I’m not gay like I want a wife and kids I’m 100% certain about that and could never see my self being in a relationship with a man. But I’m curious to know what it would be like hooking up with a male ... what should I do ? .... I don’t want to regret anything !!

 

yeah, nah, probably should have went to one of the gay forums. Sorry, that was for your first line.

honestly, mate. my biggest fear in life is regretting the stuff I can do now and probably can't do in the future. Do it now, because you mightn't and you don't wanna regret that. And sex is a big thing in life for people.

 

well i'm hetro, and past the age of having to think sexually about anything.
outside of sex itself though, gender based anything is bullshit.

regret? you can always find something to regret, whatever you do or don't.
as long as you've made commitments, keep them.
that's your word, honor, self esteem, all of that.

on the other paw, the big deal the self ritcious make about gender preference,
well that's another their problem.
that the can and do, to varying degrees impose it on others,
is their own evil.

morality is consideration. the rest is up to each of us.

 

bi curious.....

 

Like Nike would say it "Just do it" and if you like it, then like it and do it again, if for some reason you don't want to call yourself bisexual call yourself straight who likes to hook up with guys every now ans then.

 

Honestly dude, just try it. There’s nothing wrong with a little bicuriousness. I love women, everything about them, all colors, shapes and sizes, but something about being with a guy is amazing. To me, being with a guy has always felt a little wrong and taboo, so it made things incredibly erotic. Some of my most intense and hardest orgasms have been with a guy, and some of my most mentally re-lived encounters have been guy/guy ones. If anything, I’d say to take it slow, maybe find a guy in the same boat. Start out jerking together, or each other, see if you’re turned on, and/or just like the feeling of another guy jerking you or you jerking another guy. I don’t care to get blown by guys, but if he wants to tongue my ass, I’m all for it. I don’t regret any of my guy/guy encounters, and in fact, wish I had more.

 

The Ancient Greeks didn't see sexuality as "straight" "gay" or "bi. They saw sex as an appetite. Even vegetarians can have the occasional desire for a burger (they often do). I think this "hetero, homo, bi" labeling is a cultural transitional phase as we move out of 2 thousand years of sexual shaming and repression we have suffered under the cultural and religious weight of the Abrahamic faiths. Pagan cultures didn't see sex between men and women as wrong, and certainly didn't lock up, torture and kill people for it.

OP, try it. It's fun.

 

Go for it. Labelling and pigeonholing people is bs.

 

you need to have fun and not worry what others might think. i remember before my first time I had a hot gf, but like looking at cock and balls at the gym.

 

Same here. I love a woman’s body and will always be attracted to women. With men it’s just cock play. No interest in dating men. Had to get off Grindr because the gay men got super aggressive and called me all kinds of crap for NOT wanting a relationship. Like cmon man accept some of us are not into dating men. Damn! For right now I’m just keeping my thoughts and fantasies to myself.