Husband wants me to be with another man

So, several months ago my husband shocked and surprised me by approaching me out of nowhere saying that he realizes that he has never really satisfied me and that his own insecurities about his size and abilities in bed have left him unable to please me in other ways.

We’ve been to counseling, I’ve tried reassuring him over and over, even though there is truth to what he said but I would never tell him that.

It ultimately led him to asking me if I would be open to being with another man. Admittedly I was upset and a little angry at first, but as we discussed it over the course of a few months I realized that it was coming from a sincere and genuine place of love.

It took me a while but I am now considering this and do have a man in mind. I have been unable to figure out how to approach him but have an idea in mind and could really use some help and advice. Please message me for more details if you are inclined to, I sincerely hope to hear from people, I desperately need help

 

Delicate subject.
You need to find a way to talk about it, maybe hopefully someone in a group would talk about those arrangements. Then ask him what he thinks about it. Maybe if coming from an article which could generate conversation

Maybe try giving little signs to assess how he reacts.

 

Let you husband know..Set a date to meet with him and your husband if accepted. Open communication is key! Hope the best for you.
;-)

 

Usually a Nite club meeting a few drinks and dancing. Be open and talk things over. I know a few men had second thoughts after first time, but always came around after a while.