I need to rant. Nothing bugs me more than people I hardly know who try to hug me. I think it's shallow, fake, and intrusive. It's like hippy clothing.... part of a uniform. We're hippies, therefore we hug. Ummm... no we fucking don't! Back away from that hug slowy. Place it on the ground and leave your hands where I can see them..... I'm not against hugging in principle. People I know and like, or people who I obviously have a huggly connection with..... well, they can huggle right on up! What I object to is the forced hug. The hug that invades your personal space and attempts to enforce a level of intimacy with which you're not comfortable. Thoughts?
eeek...i think i might be one of those people you dislkie..although i am gettin better! i have been told my loads of people in the past that when i speak to them i am always in their personal space...i get real close and make full on eye contact...i never noticed i did it until they pointed it out and now im tryin to calm down a bit...
well ... yes what you say is true .. and you can tell when its a sincere hug. thats all really because I think you said what needed say there .. the only thing I add is that you can see a fake one coming and get away from it if your quick!
Thought we'd already established that? Nah, but seriously.... I shoulda said. Attractive members of the opposite sex are obviously a different issue!
It's not always about the sincerity though. As sincere as the hugger feels, the huggee may just not share that connection. A hug has to be equal and consenting!
*hugs Dok* lets all hug Dok!!!!!!!!!!!! this is one of those Golden opportunties to wind the bugger up *hugs Dok again*
oi mister...we may have a deal concernin the afterlife but we didnt shake on it...so you had better pretend to like me if you want rescuing, you get me?! you scratch my back and il scratch yours sort of thing...
I'm sure you were disappointed at Avebury because Giles didn't touch your arse!!!! I have exclusive hugging rights to the Dok btw.....although after that comment they may be under review
hahaha! ooh and dok here are sum high pitched, slighty sticky huggles from the chickabeans...as in the actual chickabeans...not me...for my i have a very low masculine voice..ok il shut up...
OK, I'm obviously severely out of touch with popular culture again. Who the fuck are the chickabeans?!? And boy, what does a guy have to do to start a serious thread around here? Looks like I'm gonna have to insult someone....
