How would you classify me?

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by thefranchise3, Apr 2, 2007.

  1. thefranchise3

    thefranchise3 Member

    Hello people. I am new around here. This is my first post.

    I am a 24 year old male from the Midwest.

    I consider myself straight, but I have had gay experiences in my life. When I was in high school I had a friend who every once in a while we would both perform oral sex on each other, and I performed anal sex on him one time, but had to stop because he said it hurt too bad. He tried anal on me, but I just couldn't even let him get it in because it hurt so bad. We both have about the same size cocks, and they aren't very small, so neither of us could handle the other being anally inexperienced. So we would just give each other head. There were no emotional attachments or anything like that. We'd just go out, and get drunk and screw around sometimes. It didn't happen all of the time. Probably 10-15 times tops. He would try kissing me on the mouth, and I could just never go for that. It wasn't arousing for me at all. I couldn't get aroused at the thought of kissing another guy, or cuddling with him, or holding hands or anything that I would do with a woman. It was just about giving and getting head. Me and him even had a three way with a girl. We were all going at it, and then she asked me and him to screw around. He was on top of her, and I was standing by her head. I said that he could jack me off, but that was it. Well, he started that, and I just lost all interest, and then let them go at it and left the room.
    I have since moved away and have lost touch with this guy.
    Well, a few years ago I was on the Internet and got curious, so I looked up some local guys on there and contacted one about getting together. He did come over. He was probably 50 years old. He gave me oral sex and that was it. I got together with him a few more times, and eventually gave him oral sex too. He had a rather small, uncut penis, so that got it in my head that I could probably take him anally, since I had been using sex toys and fingers in my own ass while masturbating. Well, I went to his house one day, and he had some lube, so I told him that I wanted him to stick it in my ass. But I was affraid it was going to hurt, so I lubed him up, and got on top of him. I did all the work, and was able to take him just fine. We had sex until he finished, and then I jacked off on his stomach with his penis still inside of me. That was the only time that I have had a penis in my ass. He tried kissing me too and all that jazz, but again, I wanted no part of that. It was all about the cock to me. I seen him probably 7 times at most, and he's moved away and I don't have any contact with him anymore.
    So, that's two guys that I have screwed around with, and this was like 2 years ago when this happened with the second guy.
    I haven't had any gay experiences since then at all. I do very much enjoy having my asshole played with. It feels great, and I will share that with most women that I sleep with. Some girls think it's nasty, some think it's sexy. Some girls will ask me if I am gay because I like my asshole played with. I will always reply that just because I enjoy having my asshole licked and fingered doesn't make me gay.
    I am not emotionally or physically attracted to men in any way whatsoever. But I kind of enjoy sucking a dick, and the taste of cum isn't bad either. I will sometimes eat my own cum when masturbating.
    I won't watch gay porn either. I don't get turned on by the sight of two guys going at it. BUT, I LOVE shemale porn. Whether the shemale is having sex with a man or a woman, or both it doesn't matter to me. I think shemale's are very sexy and they turn me on. I love the idea of a woman with a cock. You have the best of both worlds. I would have sex with a shemale in a heartbeat, and probably kiss one on the mouth, which I would never do with a normal gay man.
    I also would like to have a woman use a strap-on on me. I think that would be very fun.

    So, after reading this, what are your guys opinions on my sexuality??

    Do you consider a guy in my situation who has sucked cock before, and taken one anally in the situations that I mentioned to be gay, or bisexual, or bicurious, or a straight guy who has just experimented?????

    I love women. I want to get married and have a nice family. I am even going to be a father this OcTober. I love having sex with women, and have had several long term relationships. I could never imagine feeling the way I feel toward women toward men. I just don't find men attractive.

    I consider myself a straight man. I HAVE screwed around with men in the past, and I really don't think it's right to consider myself gay or bisexual because doing those things that I have done before aren't things that I consider doing again, and aren't things that I still do. I'm not in denial about anything that I have done in my past. I enjoyed it, but it's not something that is in my life anymore.

    So, what do you guys think?
  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

    id probably class you as bi, personally. have you read about the kinsey scale stuff? somewhere between completely bi and completely straight, probably (as am i though i havent actually done much of anything with a chick yet... i could see making out and sex and such but not seriously dateing but anyway, look up the kinsey scale of sexuality its mentione din a few threads in this forum)
  3. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

    If you don't like kissing guys, I don't see how you could possibly be bisexual.
  4. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

    but if he likes sucking cock and having sex with men, that doesnt count as biSEXual? :confused:
  5. Night_Owl49

    Night_Owl49 Since 2006

    And I quote: I could never imagine feeling the way I feel toward women toward men. I just don't find men attractive.

    Doesn't sound bisexual to me. He sucked cock and experimented a little - doesn't make him gay or bi.
  6. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

    sex = bisexual to me, i mean it wasnt a one time incident. im not saying hes in the complete middle ground of the kinsey scale but repeated sexual contact still means something, carries some weight
  7. Someguy1111

    Someguy1111 Member

    Im thinkin strait that has experimented. I wish i had the guts to experiment because i feel the exact same way.

    I love the idea of a man cumming inside of me but am too scared to try it.
    I just have my beautiful girlfriend of 3 years have sex with me with a strap on sometimes, i still think about a mans cock inside of me tho, n could never do the kissing or cuddling like that.

    I basically feel exactly the same as this guy even with the porn, I just havent experimented because im scared.

    Ide say just strait with experimenting.
  8. Man_of_Death

    Man_of_Death Member

    On a sexual standpoint you are clearly bisexual. On a non sexual standpoint regarding sexual orientation you are clearly heterosexual... add both of them together and you get a mostly heterosexual mix, kinda like me.

    Being bisexual can mean a lot of things, it's a tricky label and one which I have come to avoid altogether. I am sexually bisexual (and male), but there are very few men I would be totally into, like emotionally and romantically. Generally I don't like kissing guys, but if it's one that I'm totally into then I love it, kissing girls almost always rocks though. When people notice that all my relationships are with the opposite gender they start complaining about the bisexual label.

    I was even asked about this last night while me and my friends were drinking, and I could feel the "stop with the bisexual bullshit". Although I admit that my heterosexual side is dominant, I still like to keep my options open.

    But sexually, guys can appeal to me just as much as girls.
  9. Faye

    Faye Member

    Bi curious maybe? or hetrofelixable. It doesn't really matter in the end but I would consider you somewhere between bi and straight like some other ppl have said.
  10. Xowie

    Xowie Member

    I'd probably say bi curious but hey, to hell with the labels!

    Just be yourself.


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