Hey guys, I tried to satisfy my GF with my hand, but I don't really think she liked it, in fact we tried to have our first time afte that and it didn't really work - couldn't get in Any tips what I can do? Thank y'all!
Here's a tip,let me satisfy her....then I could tell you how she likes to be please... just joking,try a little 4 play,tongues work for me,I think DONT YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO LOVE DONT YOU NEED SOMEBODY TO LOVE WOULDN"T YOU LOVE SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU BETTER FIND SOMEBODY TO LOVE...........
Make sure there's loooooooooooooots of lubrication. It's ok if she doesn't produce it herself (some girls just don't get that wet, no matter how turned on they are), saliva works well too, as does the synthetic lubrication. Tongues are good, even if you just use your tongue on her clit and your fingers everywhere else. Dont' ignore her clit if you aren't using your tongue/mouth at all, that's what gets most girls off
It sounds like you are both a little inexperienced, so I applaud your efforts to learn more. Honesty and slow paced experimentation will always help you to become better lovers. First things first. Lots and Lots and Lots of foreplay is Key! Deep kissing, neck nuzzling, breathing in ears, and nibbling all over. Try to always mantain skin to skin contact. Touch her all over her body, her face, her shoulders, her sides, her thighs, her hands, her belly, her feet. When caressing her body, use more than just your hands. Follow through with your forearms. Use your face. Pick a sweet spot and kiss it, lick it, wet it good, then gently dig in with a lovely upstroke of the chin. This is a wonderful massage technique that works on every inch of the body. When she is panting heavily and tilting her hips to meet you, then move onto her pussy. Even if you are unsure, always use sure strokes with plenty of pressure. Lick your first two fingers, and stroke around the outside folds in a bottom to top, or circular motion. Do it over and over and over again, until she's bucking for you to fingerfuck her. Next go for the two finger cross over. This entails resting your pointer fingernail on the pad of your middle finger. Thus making a triangular shaped wedge that will go in easy but slighly stretch her the further in you go. Make sure your fingers are facing up. Meaning, the pads of your fingers point towards her belly. Go slowly at first, keeping a steady rhythm, and gradually pushing your fingers in deeper and deeper. Don't be afraid of hurting her, because sometimes it hurts soooo good. In order for you both to feel safe enough to really go wild, Decide on a pre arranged code word that she can say when she has had enough of a prticular action. The one my partner and I use is "Mercy!" It may take a lot of fingerfucking before she's ready for you to fit your dick in. But just be patient, and make love to her using your hand. Your fingers may get bloody from time to time from all the stretching, and that's normal. It's also normal for the pussy to make some pretty weird sounds when getting fucked, whether it be by the hand or the cock. Neither you, nor she, should be embarrassed if you hear some fart noises, for it's natural for excess air to be pushed into the pussy, and subsequently be released. One more tip about finger fucking. By cupping your fingers inside of her, and using a rapid up pulling rhythm (like you're trying to lift her whole body up off the bed) You will reach her G-spot. This more of an advanced technique, because it takes a certain amount fierceness and force to really make it work. But when you do, make sure she's on top of a towel, because your lovely lady will start spurting cum all over the place. It's Awesome!!! I hope my pointers will be put to good use. Please post again to tell me if it helps. Many Blessings to You and Yours. Gypsysoul ~ katiegirl@bust.com P.S. if anyone else would like some helpful hints, feel free to email me at the above address. Love All Ways ~ Katie G
communication!!!!--- is the key to a great sexual relationship. When you feel comfortable openly discussing what each other likes and dislikes no matter how normal or weird then you will be on the money---it don't any simpler than that...Good luck
I say you lick all the way from her bunghole to her clit. If she doesn't get wet then, RUN. And RUN FAST! If that doesn't get her wet, NOTHING WILL! lol
some of us just don't get that wet, that doesn't mean the guy should flee just because we're at a low point in our cycle in terms of natural lubrication. to the op, you should listen to the advice of the person who wrote like a dozen paragraphs on how to please a girl, those were all REALLY good tips
Hey Oz, How is becoming rich supposed to help me? I really don't get how this is going to make my grilfriend get wet. I think katigirl's comments were a lot more efficient And its easier to do, 'cause I've kinda been trying to become rich all my life and it hasn't really worked out yet. Don't wanna wait that long, until I have good sex Thanks for posting y'all!
Dude, it was a tongue-in-cheek joke...... I don't have any advice man, every woman i've known has been different and reacts diff to various things.......but, as with nearly all things, practice seems to make perfect
You did more than that! I think if I practice it more its going to be even better... I'm definitely going to ask ya agin when we're ready for the next step