How to kill sex drive, prevent erections, and reduce penis size & adequacy?

I'm a fully healthy 37 year old heterosexual male with a very high sex drive. I have high sexual stamina & energy in bed. I'm definitely not looking to boost anymore testosterone. I honestly need to lose it. My penis can stay erect throughout a night of sleeping. I could honestly masturbate or have sex 3 times a day at my age and not have any issue with erectile dysfunction or inability to orgasm. I can always produce a lot of semen, so maybe I'm packing too much testosterone. But, I'm not a doctor or expert (I couldn't say for sure).

I get frequent erections throughout the day. Most are 50-75% quite often and I hate it. My penis size is average in length at 6 inches erect. Flaccid is usually around 4.5-5 inches because of the blood flow I often get to it. It's definitely noticeable if I'm wearing gym shorts. Every once in and a while (not that often), it will reduce down to 2 inches flaccid. That's only if sex isn't on the mind for a period of time. When I served in military boot-camp in my 20's, my flaccid state would be around 2 inches. I never had time to think or want sex. It was smaller than that in the earlier weeks because I felt embarrassed in the shower. Being around 50 other men at that time and I was one of the smallest. Morning erections also reduced in size. The smallest I've ever seen it was when taking a powerful stimulant like cocaine or ecstasy during my high school/early college years. It would absolutely get down to less than an inch with zero ability to get erected. Amazing how elastic it could be.

I wouldn't mind finding a remedy to hinder my sex drive, halt testosterone production in a significant way. I've done some research and could only find chemical castration or surgical castration as a solution. Surgical would sound to extreme. Chemical castration sounds more appropriate, but I wouldn't want to become overly feminized. Especially in the sense If I were to start growing breast tissue and gaining weight on the hips. I really love my masculinity and don't want to lose it in that way. I want to lose it in a way where I lose my sexual mojo.

I want to be attracted to women in a different way. In a way where I'm not always just looking at them like a sexual object, but appreciate they're beauty and who they are. I could still give emotional support, needed attention, back massages, sexual favors (giving oral), fixing breakfast and coffee, etc. by having hormone therapy treatment. But, might not exactly be a stud in bed. I actually wouldn't mind if I did experience erectile dysfunction and lost a significant amount of size. I don't have any problems finding and keeping a girl friend. Usually most women I've dated tended to appreciate if you was good in most categories and gave you a pass if you lacked in one.

Any advice, information, or direction would greatly be appreciated

 

Physically you are just fine. I can compare you to myself at that age. At 37 I was in the best shape of my life. I was very muscular, blond, tall, and virile. My penis reacted the same way as you state then as it does now. I still get erections all through the night and experience them throughout the day and I'm in my mid sixties. I had sex as much as you state at that age. 3 to 4 times a day was the norm and I did not have any issues with maintaining erections or orgasm. I produced plenty of semen back in those days. My penis size was longer than yours erect but not by much. While flaccid it was anywhere around 2" to 5" depending on several factors. Today I am still very virile and active sexually and I love it. That's where we may differ.

Here's a few bits of information for you to ponder. Know that testosterone has nothing to do with semen volume. Nor does it have anything to do with how potent your semen is as in the number of sperm released with each ejaculation. Frequent erections, especially at night, is your bodies way of maintaining the reproductive system. It's automatic in how it works. Getting back to what testosterone does, one thing is that the hormone drives the male to desire women. We do think of them as a sex object. It is a primal urge and the males ability to have sex many times in a day is driven by testosterone. Drugs, cocaine or even prescription meds, have a big effect on the males sexual abilities. Blood pressure medications, diabetes medications, and many others have an effect on the males ability to get or maintain erections. Likewise during stressful or emotional situations the penis will retract to the body and sex drive will diminish. That answers the reasons you weren't having erections, much less sex, while in the military or high school and using drugs. Now at age 37 you are more confident and sure in your life and your sex drive has increased. Lastly your brain is the largest sex organ you have. It controls all of those primal urges to have sex and regulates all of the other sex organs you have. I think therein lies your problem.

My advice is for you to seek psychological therapy. You want to be attracted to women in a different way? Get your head worked on. By doing so you will learn how to appreciate women for who they are and get past the sex object thoughts. Castration is not the answer. I think a good amount of proper therapy is a remedy to refocus your sex drive. By what you wrote you don't want to become feminine but want to change your mindset towards women and sex with them. Go and get into therapy and get your thoughts moving in a better direction. If you do you may find that you will enjoy having a nice, healthy, fully erect, penis which you can use to bring a lot of sexual pleasure to your life. Sex is fun if channeled the right way. Go and join the party.

 

Thank you very much Barry. Your information and knowledge on the matter was highly useful. Much appreciated.

And thanks Grand. A mild antidepressant recommended by a doctor might be a good idea to help