How To Keep Nudity And Sex With Another Couple Private.

We are a senior couple and live a very private life and a few friends. Of course they do not know of our open life. This has been kept private. How do couples today find, and keep like minded friends to explore sex with? Or even just be nude with. We are not into signing up on hook up sites. We would rather have a couple our same age that we can trust to keep this part of our life very private. What say you? A side note: We have never done this sort of thing before.

 

I suppose it depends upon where you (and/or your friends) live. If you live in an apartment with thin walls (for example), I could see where it could be a problem. Otherwise, it shouldn't be an issue unless you advertise.

While my wife and I have never been swingers or partner swapped (we probably would have swapped if we'd found the right other couple), we were in a very active threesome in our youth with a close male friend. At the time, we lived in a rental house, in one of the suburbs of the college town we live in. Most of our neighbors were either white-collar working families or retired couples, so there was lots of potential for snoopy neighbors. In spite of that, our threesome get togethers always took place in our home. Since our friend visited us frequently (many times when no sex was involved), all the neighbors were used to seeing his truck in our driveway.

The only other locations that the three of us ever got together for sex were at one of three different, very secluded swimming holes we'd occasionally visit (originally just for nude sun bathing, later to fuck once the threesome formed.)

If you're careful, and a bit creative, you can even be a little daring at times. Once our threesome friend fucked my wife right in front of half a dozen total strangers, about ten feet away, and they were none the wiser. You see, the three of us would occasionally take what amounted to about a two and a half hour drive, up into the mountains, to visit a primitive hot springs that was locally popular. It was about half a mile walk into the woods to reach it from the parking area. The springs consisted of three cascading pools, each a bit cooler than the one above it. The middle pool was the largest and most popular temperature-wise. it was also just a little over three feet deep. The place was also clothing optional, which really meant everybody was naked. When we arrived, there was a group of local "hippies" already in the middle pool. We stripped and settled into the water on the opposite side, with my wife between our friend and me. Less than five minutes passed and then she scooted over into our friends lap. Nobody raised an eyebrow because couples did this all the time and the other folks had no way of knowing which of us two guys my wife was really with. (It was after dark and the light was feeble, so it's unlikely any of the strangers had noticed our wedding rings.) Anyway, I knew what my wife was doing. She surreptitiously reached down between her legs, got a firm grip on our friends now-erect cock, and slid it into her pussy. Then, while they both just sat there motionless, she rhythmically squeezed him with her pussy until he quietly came inside her. They stayed sitting together while we talked with each other and with the other folks, until we finally left about an hour and a half later. If anyone had any idea what had happened there, they didn't utter a peep.

I'm not suggesting that you try anything that bold, but, unless you or your friends blab, or you start getting together for sex in public, the only people that will know about your sex life will be the people you want to know about it!

 

It's not so much about threesomes or swapping,but just finding a like minded couple to hang around with that are open to some sexual adventure. At our age it's about quality. We are finding it hard to break the ice. Sometimes just to sit around naked and enjoy each other. Our home is very secluded with no neighbor nearby. If sex comes to play,no one can see or hear. We are not the pushy type. The friends we have now would not consider this life style.

 

Oh, I'm sorry. I misunderstood your original question. You're actually asking about how does someone go about finding another person/couple that into the same lifestyle, without broadcasting it to everyone else. Correct?

If that's the case, I wish I could offer advice but I can't. When I arranged our threesome, my wife and I had already known our (male) friend for almost as long as we'd been married (six years.) As such, I was pretty certain of his reaction to my proposition before I ever asked. If you don't already have similar friends, you have a MUCH more difficult task ahead of you.

 

You are correct. We want like minded friends that are very private as well. We don't want it broadcast though rumors and gossiping. Finding trust in privacy is proving to be difficult. What say others on this forum?

 

You might want to look into a nude resort in your area. My wife and I have met several couples who live in our area at a local nudist camp/resort. One couple invited us to their (secluded) home where we all could be naked and enjoy ourselves. Unfortunately, they moved away before we could all be comfortable with doing more than being naked.

 

NorCalMan, Thanks for the post. Yes, we live a very secluded life in another country. We have made friends with some really nice people,but something is missing, However there are no nudist resorts around us. We are not what some people call beautiful people, but we do have a good retired life style. We stay healthy and eat right. If our friends find out about us it would spread like fire. We just want another couple we can trust with our nudity to spend time at our 45 acre forest compound.