So an orgasm via prostate alone, not penis stimulation as you rub the prostate that's not the real thing.... ........Ive tried to have a prostate only orgasm, I got super close, I got there by vigorously [not damaging myself] rubbing the prostate for as long as I could bare it. For me that's the problem I don't have the will power to keep going its like a pleasure that's too much to bare its kinda like pain-pleasure as in theres no real pain but you cant stand the pleasure for long before wanting to stop. So anyway as I got close I gained an erection without touching my penis, I went for a wee, I felt my prostate enlarge, my penis felt awesome even tho I wasn't touching it, the pleasure radiated elsewhere, I kinda had a ruined prostate orgasm because I had to stop because I couldn't bare to go on, but I got a glimpse of how good it would have been like much better than penile orgasms. So all the advice I read is go light relax etc but that doesn't do anything for me, its like a massive waste of time with 0 results. If I really vigorously massage it, I get results but I cant bare the intensity. If I go in-between, I get the worst of both worlds I cant bare it and no results. Am I doing it wrong, whats your best advice, how can I make this happen///
Good luck. I'm not sure every male can achieve this. I've jealously watched amateur porn where dudes start oozing cum from just anal play. Hands free orgasms and all he's doing is fucking his asshole. I've learned to play anally and really enjoy the masturbation that goes along with it. I'll get right up to cumming from jerking and will resort to just riding the dildo hoping a switch will click and my cock will start blasting cum. Never happens. My cock will stand there rock hard and throbbing but no orgasm. Don't beat yourself up because it don't work like you think it should or like you se it work for others. Women have the most intense orgasms and my quest is to search for a pleasure that comes close to what they experience. That's why I do anal play. But no two women orgasm the same way. Some need internal stimulation to cum. Some external. And some can't do it at all.
You have to be super relaxed and in the right state of mind. You can't rush it either. I've done it once with great success and came very close another time. Now it's kinda all I want to do.I want discover that part of my body more and see what I'm really capable of. I'm excited to get the wife involved also. This may sound gross, but make a bowel movement first (it stretches things out), then quickly clean yourself and get to work. Good luck on your quest. Remember, dedicate the time to yourself, relax, use lube.
My wife use to fuck my ass occasionally (once a month with a strap-on, finger, dildo, etc. (once a month) but I never came that way. One night she fucked my ass with a strap-on and it felt so damn good, was totally different. I never came. She gave me a blow right after and when I came it gushed out, was such I large load. Normally I cum and it is about a table spoon worth, this time it was like a soup ladle worth. She chocked, gagged, and it went all over the place. Just wonder if anyone else has had that.
New to the forum and was looking for somewhere to discuss this and fortunately found this thread. I recently bought another toy... I've tried others before. But I'm really struggling here to get what this is all about. Okay I am not experienced and just starting out but having experimented before and had this thing inserted for ten minutes it's a nice feeling, yes but as for orgasms, I've never experienced one yet in this area whether exploring with fingers or toys. I've read blogs and forums and the experiences of others who have and am just so jealous! I want to feel what it's all about rather than just read it. Maybe I just don't have an active p-spot (is that possible?) or maybe it is simply my not touching the right spot, i.e I have not located it yet or just a question of keep going until I do find it? I have read that once you do locate it it's like the best feeling ever. :dizzy2: