How to get rid of chronic masturbation?

I'm 20y'o and I think I'm suffering from chronic masturbation. I masturbate nearly 3 or 4 times for a day. Is this an abnormal behaviour or not?

 

To my knowledge there are no health linked issues with higher rates of masturbation (other than making yourself sore if you're not accustomed to it). It is more a problem if it starts having an impact on your life/relationships, for example if you were choosing to masturbate rather than be intimate with a partner or if you felt compelled to do it in a public/strange place-then you may have an issue. Otherwise, it does very temporarily lower sperm count but as long as you are not trying to conceive it shouldn't be an issue.

 

It's better than repressing it, I am 40 and hardly ever masturbated, now that I'm letting myself go... I actually spent 12 hours straight doing it, in my defense I also haven't had sex in 4-5 months, anyway just do what feels right there is nothing wrong with it especially at your age, it just means your young and virile.

 

Constant masturbation is not healthy. Especially if you’re single.

If you jerk it that much, then you will get to the point where jerking off is the only way you can reach orgasm. No pussy or mouth will get you off once you find a woman, if you keep that up. Because your dick will be so used to the feeling of your own hand.

 

Exactly.
I am a testament to what shaman is saying.
Was in a loveless marriage for too long, several years as a sexless marriage.
Masturbation was all I had. Pretty close to 7 days a week, sometimes 2 -3 times in the same day if I was alone all day.
After the kids left we divorced, I met someone new. I struggled big time. I simply could not cum by intercourse, and that was the least of the problems. I also had problems maintaining an erection in the middle of having sex. It would simply shrink up.
Thankfully she is a great, understanding gal and we got through it. (we have now been married for almost 4 years)
It took months before the problem went away.
I still masturbate, but only a couple times a week, sometimes only once. Even now, if I masturbate sex will likely not be successful in the same day.

 

Departing from the two comments immediately before this one, I'll offer that masturbating 3-4 times per day is perfectly normal for a healthy 20-year-old man.

It's well within the normal range of frequency. "Chronic masturbation" is neither a mental health condition nor a medical condition, and doing it 3-4 times per day in private certainly doesn't indicate any compulsion or obsession.

I'm a chronic breather and walker. So what?

So, let's play along and say you want to stop masturbating. How would you do that? Get busy doing something else with your hands. Try playing the violin while masturbating. Try playing it well. You can't. Not interested in the violin? Build birdhouses. Take up knitting. Cook for your family, friends, and neighbors. As long as you're using both hands for something else, you aren't masturbating. It's really very easy.

 

Hell to the no

you don’t wanna be like this guy

 

If you're really wanting to limit it, do what I do. Refrain from porn and only please yourself once you're sure you really need it.

 

This is why you need to go lefty more often!!

 

3 or 4 times? Pfft that’s normal! Fifty faps a day is when you should get worried, lol.

 

Have you considered chastity? My wife keeps me in a cock cage until she is ready for me. She says it makes me much more affectionate and keeps me from porn and masturbating.

 

Quit feeling bad about what you're doing, and have fun. That's what I finally did.

 

Get out of your room, find something to do where there are other people. Get a hobby, go to the gym, it doesn't matter what, just get out and meet people. Some of those people will have pussies, some won't, take your pick. Thanks to the China virus it's harder to mingle with new people for now. It's ok you can work on that later. For now, lube up all you want, at least you're having safe sex.

 

A quote from an article I found on vice in relation to prostate cancer.

"men who ejaculate more often could have a lower risk of developing the disease. Luckily, they don't need to have sex to do that!"

 

Not gonna help me. Anything about female masturbation and maybe cervical cancer? Not that I really need another reason to do it.

 

If I find one, I'll let you know

 

Thanks. Until then I'll continue on doing it just for pleasure.

 

I jack off so much that when I’m fucking my wife sometimes I lose erection. I have to pull out and jack off on her tits. She likes that and most of the time helps jacking me off. I straddle her jacking me off, while finger fucking her. Or fucking her with her vibrator.

 

I had a fuck friend in college and as soon as we got done fucking she would ask how long it will be before we do it again and again and again. I had to leave her. That is the kind of girl you need my friend or guy.

 

keep jerking bro.... it's practice rounds for when the real game comes up, lol