To make it short and sweet, I don't like personal ad sites. I know of some of the cruise sites in my town but don't want to hang out in some smelly bathroom and don't want to get caught blowing somebody in the woods. This may sound like a weird question, and sorry if it comes off obnoxious. I was just wondering if there is some way people looking for it and people who have it to give can connect discreetly in everyday life? Is there some esoteric way that only interested parties would be able to discern, to indicate that I'm looking?