How to find a married bi make or twink

I am doing something wrong or too picky
I’m 62 decent shape slender closeted married but guy.
So many guys like me seem to meet nice buddies for some regular play.
Where do you find them? Most bi websites I don’t care for.
And twinks as well?

 

Supposed to be male not make

sorry

 

Supposed to be bi not but

 

I hear you. It's not easy. Are you married?

 

I've come across many married guys in need while grabbing a beer and a bite to eat at local pubs. When they open the conversation of sexual frustration, I lead the conversation towards a "mouth-is-a-mouth", have you ever considered? More times than not I've ended up being allowed to suck their cock. And most of them became regulars which was just fine with me.

 

How do you get to the point where it's obvious what you're asking, but handle it when it gets rebuffed? And to do so without a guy freaking out, making a scene?
I think most all of us, while nervous but ok if the conversation works out in our favor.
It's when it doesn't that we're worried about? At least I am anyways.
How have you handled those situations?

 

I've always used this line once I feel it's OK to do so. "You know, you could let another guy suck your cock, male or female every mouth is wet and warm inside". If they respond negative, I drop the subject. If they respond positively, I offer up my oral services.

 

I've managed to convince at least 15 guys to allow me to suck their cock this way. Only one stopped me a couple minutes into it saying it wasn't for him, but the others complimented me for my oral skills.

 

Yes married

 

Lucky guys

 

If I remember correctly your wife knows you play with guys.
Your very fortunate
My wife knows I draw outside the lines but not to the extent I want to.

 

Sorry came upon this by mistake. I'm a married Female. I want to explore a MMF Threesome but wanted advice first.
My Marriage is important and Hubby is ok with it as he will be one of the Participants. Was trying to find someone who has experienced this and can lend advice?

 

Your husband is a lucky man!!!
Are you all the conservative neighbors next door type?

 

No. We keep to ourselves because we both work and are very busy, but moderate type, nothing left or right. Why do u ask?

 

Lucky? Him? No its me who wants the MMF, not him. He is straight as an arrow.

 

We are pretty open and sexually active and have watched porn together. One time about a year ago we saw a porn MMF and i said that would be fun. It built from there.
The way i found to clear the air is to talk about it, make sure in conversation its ok, then also say what limits and a code word to stop.
The task is going forward with another person. Not sure yet how to do that which is why i needed advice from soeone who has done this already.
I actually think an escort is best, no strings and no one falling for you. Just my thought though.

 

I don't think you need to go by way of an "escort" but if it provides you with what you desire to experience then go for it. Finding an individual that suits the two of you is the most important thing. I've experience many MMF with my wife and my "buds" wife over the years and both of them are always extremely satisfied afterwards. Mind you, I'm bisexual and have been involved with him for almost 13 years, before I met my present wife and before his wife knew what he was doing with me, in the end it all worked out for the best as the four of us are great friends and lovers on occasion. Have you considered searching for a third partner at a local pub or club? I know some people are wary about doing that, but many recently divorced, single men do enjoy a bite to eat and a drink and they're easy to spot when sitting alone. The two of you have already talked things over which is the most important, set your individual boundaries, and get what you want and don't want brought out into the open and agreed upon. Now you just have to find that third partner to full fill what it is "YOU" are wanting and desire to make that moment one worth experiencing.

 

I'm going to suck on a dick myself today

 

I have been in several mmf and the man is sucking my dick while I suck on your clit