How To Discreetly Hook Up With Another Married Guy

It's been a long time since I had a friend like that and our friendship came early and easy. After him I didn't swim in that end of the pool anymore but always enjoyed the memories. I was blessed in the gene pool and never had any issues getting women, I hardly ever went after one since so many came to me. During that time in the late 70's I was constantly approached by guys interested in me. I don't call them gay since maybe they were bi, some were definitely gay and they would seek me out in a situation where I would be uncomfortable. I alway turned them down but I was somewhat attracted to a few. I did succumb to one guy but the situation was perfect and he just kept asking me if he could suck my dick. So I let him, and after he says, " I thought it would be bigger." I responded " you hoped it would be bigger, just like I did."
Now days my wife doesn't want sex and I think about how to find someone to re-explore with and I am stumped.
Women still come on to me but no guys, except for the ocassional stare and then they're gone. I would love to find a married bi or curious guy. I travel weekly and privacy would be easy but craigslist scares the crap out of me.
Where do go? What do you look for from others in a bar or hotel? I would rather find a bi married guy but I'm open to suggestions.

 

Where are you (within a couple hundred miles, say?)

 

Married ,sexless marriage, and very curious.
I have tried CL and it too scares the hell out of me.
I live in southern California and you ?

 

CL is so scary. I don’t know how I’d ever feel safe from injury or disease.

 

I have posted on CL and never went through with it.

 

Yeah no way I could do that. I’d wonder about disease for years

 

Deep South

 

Not even close, Birmingham.

 

Too bad

 

Yeah it is, I would like to find someone I could trust. I've only done oral and handjobs with one guy but we use to do it a lot.

 

go to silverdaddies, good site

 

All ages ?

 

yes

yes, i am chatting with a 21 yr old now but men of all ages

 

I’m going to give it a try. Thank you

 

Craigs list is sketchie at best. As said above silverdaddies is a decent site. Having said that its still a tough wading through guys to actually finding somone you would want to meet. Giving that I’m picky, maybe its just hard for me, but not impossible.

 

It is tough and very scary. I’m looking through SD and no luck. I guess I’m being a little to picky myself.

 

Its best that way. At least it is for me Rob. I guess it depends what you are looking for. If its a one time experience then that wont be hard to find. CL or SD will get you that. But being married causes you to be discrete and want a low mileage guy. I haven’t had any chance encounters, so for me that’s not going to work. Nothing wrong with taking your time and finding somone you are comfortable with. Have a no expections meeting for coffee first.

 

I had a guy randomly message me on Facebook and we just chatted for awhile then he said he wanted to give me a blow job and a few days later I got one from him then a few weeks later I had a drunk blackout night and I ended up at his house and he banged me all night, best sex ever from what I can remember