How to convince reluctant girl to have anal sex.

Well I´m certainly no sex expert but I would like to share some positive experiences I have in the field and hear some positive experiences from other members...

How I do it.

1. I never ague or try to convince verbally - a girl who does not enjoy anal will hardly be turned on when you talk about the subject so why bother.
2. I go slowly, during oral sex I never miss an opportunity to touch the asshole, starting with some rubbing and the going for one, two or more fingers, depending on how the girl reacts.
3. I never ask for anal sex, I just go for the kill, if the girl is horny enough she will almost never object if you try to stick up her ass.
4. If the girl is not enjoying I stop. Usually when a girl is not enjoying anal they make some ugly faces, or just look like a dead corpse, that kind of thing just does not turn me on so I just go for the pussy. Of course that does not mean I am not trying it again.
5. I am insistent, not pushy. I will try to have anal almost every time I have sex whit a girl. However, if she is not in the mood I try not to argue or discuss her reasons.

 

Skills I have:
1.) I can throw a knife into a target made of solid wood and make it stick there whether it is the blade or the handle that strikes the surface.

2.) I do 200 squats and thirty minutes of stair climbing every morning.

3.) I take three lessons in kung fu and two lessons in kick boxing weekly.

4.) I'm never in the mood to put up with bullshit nor abuse, and so I tolerate neither.

In conclusion, bla4ck, if some man I entrust with my body takes advantage of my faith him, I will fucking end him. I was a victim once, but that will never happen again. I like anal, but if you randomly put anything in my ass without warning me, I'm breaking it. If you put it there again, I'm keeping it.

I hate these men who think they need to liberate the poor prudish souls of the world from their fears by taking away their scary decisions and making choices for them. Unbelievably, the internet is chock full of these losers who want to "convince" which always, without exception means force, badger, or connive through guilt. If you talk to a woman, and she says she isn't interested in any particular act, let it be her loss, and go fuck someone else. If it is your monogamous partner, open the relationship, leave it, or get used to having a rich fantasy life.

Newsflash, Genius, a woman who responds positively to a tongue or a finger would have responded positively to conversation, or very likely feels tremendous pressure to try what you want and learn to like it. The latter is abuse, pure and simple. That is a horrendous betrayal. Fuck you with a cactus for perpetrating it agains women who trusted you. Fuck you sideways with a brick for wanting to spread your sickness to others.

 

Wow I'm really surprised that you think it's ok to push the anal issue with her and do it without asking. Smh.

Thats awful.

 

That is rape. It does not matter if she gave consent for vaginal or oral sex, or if she gave consent for you to touch her anus with your hands. Inserting your penis into a woman's anus without clear consent is rape.

 

Sometimes I have tried new sex acts with my wife without asking her first & she has at times detested some of the things I tried to introduce to spice up our sex life more & some she soon lets me know that she finds them either unexceptable or not her type of thing at all or they are against her beliefs - me giving her oral sex is one sex act she is totally against.
I have tried doing some new sexual acts with her that were without her consent but some were ok with her & other acts were disapproved of totally. A shame she's not as adventurous sexually as some others are.

 

There seems to be a lot of anger in you, I do not think you are as bad as you think you are but that's ok .As long long as you can successfully portray that image no one should mess with you. But be very careful lest you you run into someone who does not need to be impressed by words

 

I've practiced & taught martial art's for over 5 1/2 decades now and the best first line of self defense for a young lady is the basic first kata of tongue fu. Rear up on your hind legs look 'em squarely in the eyes and firmly state "NO!"

 

Just lick it and stick it.


(of course I'm joking)

 

Just Nasty

 

Can I watch you throw the knife? Go Mocha... Go Mocha......:2thumbsup:

 

Agreed. But the last two times I was confronted by weirdos they were not as impressed with my "Back off, Mister!" nor my verbal threats as they were with my stun gun and torch lighter respectively. Goodness, but there's seriously enough derranged people in the world without having to find out you've let one into your bed. It is bad enough two dudes in this thread think it is acceptable to harangue a partner into acts they have rejected, they think it os okay to randomly sodomize people, or introduce anything that os remotely radical by just inflicting their porn-inspired bullshit on their unsuspecting partners. Gross. The only time I think it is acceptable to approach my asshole without telling me is if one is approaching tongue first, and we've already done that before. I'm only saying no to something once, and my instinct is to inflict pain while I say it. Just ask my husband whether or not I like being tickled anywhere.

Scarlet532: Hahaha! Plant a wooden post in your backyard if you can, get a set of throwing knives (SOG knives are inexpensive, strong, and available at any camping store or Wal-Mart) and just throw. There are loads of videos on YouTube, but I honestly didn't understand any of them. I just went out back and started teaching myself. (Which is why I hit my post handle first as often as blade first. I really need a lesson.) But even when you miss a lot in the beginning, just throwing the knives, the repetition and the eventual rhythm as you begin to be consistent are deeply satisfying. You should totally throw knives!

 

Funny thing is though, its probably the other way around.

Its because you are married.

Most guys arent going to bother, because you are married, why bother worrying about a jealous husband, which leaves the weirdos - who are going to get off on trying to piss off the husband, or cos you go so postal, or assume you go postal cos you have been married to long and are sexually frustated

 

Getting back on topic, try having her use a dildo up your own ass and show her how much you love it.:devil:

 

You would be surprised at the amount of guys that just don't care if you are married. Usually my response to "hi, I'm so and so, whats your name?" Is "Hi, I'm married". Just get it out on the table. I've had more than one guy respond to that with "I don't care. He's not here". And continue the conversation. I've said "well he cares and so do I". You can usually tell what they are after by their response.

 

LOL .....Yes, but are you fanatic about it? :devil: :2thumbsup:

 

Fanatic as in 100% faithful?

 

Back in the 'good ole days' ('60/'70s) in the Haight Ashbury my wife and I had an agreement. I did not mean to imply you were unfaithful.

 

My marriage is open. I'm not frustrated, and my husband isn't jealous. And RubySoho is right. Nobody is worried about my husband's potential jealousy. I disclose my marital status quickly, and the most common response is that they can give me something I don't get at home. Sometimes they're correct. The weirdos I encounter are not my sexual partners. My sexual partners have, almost exclusively been very well behaved unless I didn't want them to be. Sorry if I confused you.

The weirdos are a part of going outside alone a lot. There are a lot of strange people out there. Some are strange enough that you have to convince them, sometimes loudly and painfully, to let you leave the laundromat or to stop following you, or to stop following you while leering and jerking off at the beach. I feel badly for the women the OP beds. In their case, the weirdo is in bed with them.

 

I was just asking if that is what you meant. I didn't feel like you were implying anything. Yes I'm 100% faithful no matter how persistent they are. I have many male friends and some of those friendships started with me saying "I'm married" if the response is "that's cool. What's your name?" I'm fine. It's a respect thing for me. Respect my marriage and we can be great friends. Anyway, this has nothing to do with anal sex. I was just saying that not all men that we meet care that we are married.