Well I´m certainly no sex expert but I would like to share some positive experiences I have in the field and hear some positive experiences from other members... How I do it. 1. I never ague or try to convince verbally - a girl who does not enjoy anal will hardly be turned on when you talk about the subject so why bother. 2. I go slowly, during oral sex I never miss an opportunity to touch the asshole, starting with some rubbing and the going for one, two or more fingers, depending on how the girl reacts. 3. I never ask for anal sex, I just go for the kill, if the girl is horny enough she will almost never object if you try to stick up her ass. 4. If the girl is not enjoying I stop. Usually when a girl is not enjoying anal they make some ugly faces, or just look like a dead corpse, that kind of thing just does not turn me on so I just go for the pussy. Of course that does not mean I am not trying it again. 5. I am insistent, not pushy. I will try to have anal almost every time I have sex whit a girl. However, if she is not in the mood I try not to argue or discuss her reasons.