How to arrange a first threesome with another man

I'll admit this is a bit of a fantasy of mine, it turns me on but terrifies me at the same time. My woman is highly sexual and flirtatious. She has been pretty adventurous so far. I think we could talk discuss it without offense, I don't know if she'd actually be into it. Also I don't know if it could actually control my jealousy. I was wondering how to go about it. Finding another guy who'd be interested I don't think would be hard, she had some dates during a time when we're split up and I know she has admirers. OK I don't want her to do it with anyone local who has an interest in her, and maybe she them, that sounds like a recipe for trouble and jealousy. Also then word might get around. Gossip. So I think friends / admirers of her are out. I don't think I have any friends who'd want to do it, and I don't want to bring of friend of mine into this anyways. So they're strangers off of online sites, but that sounds a little risky and dangerous. I suppose you could take your time meeting and getting to know somebody.

She did live in another state and maybe has an old BF or a friends' BF or something. I don't know, maybe no good candidate there, but it is appealing in that it would be someone she knows, but we'd fly down for a long weekend and whatever happens, it would just stay "in Vegas" as they say. If it was weird and awkward - oh well - don't mention it again. If it was hot, great, but no worries about running into the guy again, or him wanting to get more involved. In other words helps keep the jealousy factor in check.

What do you all think?

 

Lots of husbands have this fantasy, or sharing their wives' pussies with other men, but few know how to make it happen.

Your suggestion of being able to hook-up with some guy she knew before, possibly even some guy who fucked her before you, is a good one. But I would suggest that you do not leave all the work up to her. If you were able to locate this guy and get him to talk with you, and convince him that you were being straight with him, then look him in the eye and ask "Would you like to fuck my wife?" you might be able to make it happen.

Lots of guys who are out looking for pussy, especially married pussy, may not realize that there are lots of husbands like us who would gladly share their wive's pussies if we knew a way to make it happen. It would be ideal if there was a web-site somewhere that husbands could visit and find the "right" guy to invite into their wives' beds.

 

Having a fantasy & actually wanting to put it into practice are usually 2 totally different things.

 

Thanks for the responses guys. Yeah finding just any guy wouldn't be too hard, given her past and how sexy she is; it would be more about finding a guy I'm comfortable with her being with. Finding a stranger online is attractive b/c you can more likely keep it just about the sex, but I'm not sure (and this is a good thing) she'd want to have just any random stranger. But yeah I'm sure if we advertised, we'd get a lot of mail in the inbox. Involving a local friend of hers would maybe put her at ease, but make me more uncomfortable. That's why I thought of the out-of-state idea. Maybe all these concerns means that I should leave this idea in fantasy land, b/c I'm not ready for the reality. I'm also putting the cart before the horse b/c I haven't discussed it with her. I joked with her once about having another woman, and she said well I like having you to myself, but if you want maybe we could find a friend or someone off of [name withheld, but the local classifieds]. I didn't push it, but I think she would explore that.

Regarding the fantasy, maybe I'm too specific and not realistic either b/c what I envision is not a whole night together with a lot of making out and foreplay for her and the other guy, but having a spit roast with the other guy taking her doggystyle with me in front watching her enjoy being fucked. She would suck on me while it happens, not necessarily the whole time, because if she orgasms from the fucking I imagine being in front of / underneath her watching it and maybe caressing her. She can then finish me off with her mouth after. So he is more of a stunt cock I guess. Wearing a condom. Although switching would be hot too, I'm more queasy about her sucking his cock and pleasuring him for some reason. I.e. I'm actually more comfortable with him fucking her than her sucking him.

 

Yes you so don't sound ready to do this and it might just be better to leave it as a fantasy! For sure there is no point making plans without even talking seriously with her first and not just when you are having sex.

 

I were offered the chance last year to be part of a threesome (MMF) & money was involved but I didn't have any spare cash at the time. Would I'd have gone thru with it if $'s were available - maybe.