hi everyone i'll having a relationship problem with my cousin. All of this started last june when i went over to her graduation. i was her only cousin that was willing to over to hawaii. i had fun over there and felt good to relax but my cousin she left me high and dry. I devoted so much time to help her for her graduation. i could thing of about 12 meaningful things that helped her out and want i got for it. NOTHING. She left me high and dry over in hawaii and went her friends. True, she would may never see her friends over there but i came 5000 miles to go see her and hang out with her and importantly i sacrificed a job for her. So i guess i'm like Chase on 24 in picking family first. Now, she came to my graduation and i also treated her well like buying her expensive chocolates, drinking jamba juice, taking her out for lunch with her step-dad. I gave up my friends just to hang out with her. Now, she goes out to hang out with her other cousins and she's leaving me out to dry. i feel disheartning that i devoted so much time and thought for her and now i realized as of right now it was for nothing. I really do like her b/c most of the cousins in the family i cant trust in my point of view. i really do see the potential in her but it doesnt show it in my eyes. i felt that i wasnt being appreciated for my efforts. true, that i hear thank yous but she doesnt realized what i sacrificed for her. I talked to her mom and she said that she doesnt really care and love for her cousins really, only her friends and her immediate family. Do u expect that a guy (me) who does a lot for a girl get maybe lil something in return? I mean i dont want like if u do something for me, u have do something back for me. i dont want that i want to ask yall if i should confronted her about all of this and try to fix things or i should let go and move on. she and one other cousin imo i could really trust. i really want things to work out for the better.