How Often Do Straight Guys Have Gay Sex?

BINGO........you nailed it in my opinion!

 

I have profiles on a couple of swingers sites, and I've been surprised by the number of contacts from guys who say they are straight and looking for women only - despite this they usually ask to suck my cock, and sometimes for me to fuck them.

 

Seems like the definition of words change over time.
"I did not have sex with that woman," means he didn't have intercourse, "BJ's" don't count.
Now, straight guys can give Blows Jobs and stay straight. I can live with that.

 

Straight is a relative term. I identify as straight to the general public, but behind closed doors I am very much not straight. I have sucked the dicks of plenty of "straight" men. Girlfriend or wife that doesn't fuck them very often or at all. Sometimes they express their distaste for the lack of sex they are getting. I just flat out offer to give them head. Sometimes I get a no. Sometimes they act timid. "Uh, I'm not gay dude." I just say, "I just wanna suck your dick. Nobody will know." Almost every time I say that the pants come off.

 

Totally strait here, never go anywhere without a dick in each hand.

 

I always wanted to try this but always too afraid of how they would react. I might have to try this... I consider myself straight as I ive never fucked a guy or been fucked i have let a guy suck me off but this was in my teens. I`ve fucked several women since then but always thought about giving a bj...`

 

Down4Net..., Dude, you have to get over your fears. Admit it, you're afraid of "Living life," it's not "Living."
There is no right or wrong. Do it, experience it, if you don't like it, don't do it again.
You're not living life when you're afraid of experiencing life.
Obviously, you're thinking about it for a reason.
Listen to what you say, and when you come up with the word "but" stop yourself, knowing that
"but" is a contraction for "here cums the BULLSHIT." Every word after "but" is bullshit so
just go with your original statement.
As in, "I always wanted to try it." Stop right there and just do it.

 

...the term for a guy who sucks on the 'down low' & then goes home to his wife is cocksucker...& I consider them straight...

 

I am bi without a doubt. I'm my 43 years I have been with about 5 or 6 men. 2 at once. But I am married love my wife and don't actively seek hook ups. But I do think and wish for it almost weekly.
So there is that

 

I'm straight, and I have never sucked on a penis before. My curiosity for sexuality began in kindergarten, and I had my penis sucked, but no homoerotic tendencies really traveled with me past age 8. When I was young, I was never exposed to pornography, nor was I explained to what sex was until I was 12 years old. When I turned 9, I was out in the woods with older girls (They had breasts) and we played the if you show me yours I will show you mine game. I can still remember getting an erection at 9 years old, and wanting to place my penis inside of both of them after they showed me theirs. I had no idea why I wanted to, all I knew was that I wanted to, even though I had no idea what sex was.

 

As often as possible and never enough. I'm married, love my wife but sex got tired over ten years ago and I started sucking cock. I still fuck her some but when I can get a good load I'd much rather have it. But don't get to do it but 5 or 6 times a year. I wish I could find a suck buddy to service weekly.

 

Never.

If a man is actually heterosexual or straight he's not going to have sex with other men.

 

There really isn't a "straight guy" anymore. On the outside yes. We follow what's called the "Bro Code"which means no matter how mad you get at one another his secret is safe. They come begging for it after that first time when the find out "oh my god guys can suck a dick and make me cum off a blowjob and quick and my girl can't" Once they figure this out I would say 90% of my straight boys love a good blowjob.

 

I wanna give cocksucking a go

 

This thread reminds me of the old saying ... "You can build houses your entire life and never be called a carpenter. But suck one cock and you're gay until the day you die."

Might be a bit overstated, but straight guys don't give hummers or even fantasize about them. Takes awhile to come to terms with accepting yourself as bi or gay which is why I think many cling to the idea that straight guys can have gay encounters or fantasies and still categorize themselves as being straight. Wishful thinking really.

 

I'm a woman and I love sucking a cock and swallowing the cum. You guys who are all a bit too 'hetero' don't actually know what you're missing. Guys that want to give it a go get the big thumbs up from me. Secure in their sexuality. Nice. I also like licking and sucking on a woman too. I guess women are less hung up on being, well, real women.

 

Everybody loves a big dick....don't they? unk:

 

I'm a gay man that for some reason attracts a lot of curious str8 married guys. The most recent married guy walks in my door every time with a raging hard on ready for action.
A few weeks ago as a gift for him I arranged a threesome with a vey limber and willing younger guy
We all had some of the best porno style sex of our lives

 

This statement is probably the CLOSEST one to the truth.

As a bi guy, I am glad to understand both sides of the coin: I'm quite a mixed bag with both very straight tendencies and very gay tendencies...polarizing extremes in fact.

 

Is this like just because you put a cat in the oven, don't make it a biscuit?

And I'm straightand never heard of any of my friends doing this, but who knows. Sounds like you are hoping for a straight dude to come around.