How many times do you have Sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by gratefulgirl, Aug 19, 2005.

  1. gratefulgirl

    gratefulgirl Member

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    How many times do you have sex a week. Just curious b/c me and my boyfriend hardley ever do it, it seems like. Be honest. Am I being deprived?
     
  2. MollyThe Hippy

    MollyThe Hippy get high school

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    3 1/2 times a week
     
  3. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    honnestly sometimes the best relationships ya dont feel the need to be constantly havin sex, so could be 10 times 1 week & not at all the next 2 weeks, ..but other then the sex whats the rest of the relationship like? if your not getting enough, do you ever make the 1st move? if he worklsalot he might just want to relax & chill when hes with ya
     
  4. BIGBEAR

    BIGBEAR Member

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    4-5 times per week :)
     
  5. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    How can you judge something between the two of you by the actions of others?
     
  6. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    Well it depends on my mood.. lol MY mood. When I'm not too stressed, when not too many things worry me, when I'm self-confident and positive, every day, or even twice a day or more. When busy, like every other day.. or 3 times a week..

    But when I'm just not too in the mood for it, I just give my boyfriend hand jobs whenever he wants it... or oral if I'm in the mood.. it depends..
     
  7. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    It depends really. My husband and I have been together for 9 years and we average around twice a week, BUT, sometimes it's less, sometimes it's more. It's all in what's going on at the moment. :)
     
  8. WolfMan Jack

    WolfMan Jack Member

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    Like all my other brother and sisters said, it all depends on what is going on in your lives and such. If you feel the need for more then tell him. If you are too shy to talk about it, then show him. A woman that is hungry for it can definately turn show her lover in a way they will understand and readily respond to.
     
  9. sweetval

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    Chele and I have sex almost every night.

    With guys, I have a lot if the opportunity presents itself. I like variety so it tends to always be interesting.

    I was with a guy recently that has me absolutely head over heels. I intend to give him all the sex he can handle. I've never been with one guy on a steady basis so I don't know if it tapers off. I hope not.

    I know that I always want sex with my g/f and both of us do boys usually together
     
  10. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    The answer is YES
     
  11. smurphette

    smurphette Member

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    If you think that you are, you are.
     
  12. ads

    ads Member

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    smurfy u deffo deprived !"!!!
     
  13. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    0 times a week sex just got soooooooo boring with my man that i literally lost all interest in sex

    But before i got pregnant and all this bullshit that i have been going through we had sex like 4 or 5 times a week and that includes oral sex (for him) but like actual sex was only 2 time a week.
     
  14. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    We have sex every night, unless I'm super tired. Sometimes in the morning before work, but not too often...
     
  15. Aerosolhalos

    Aerosolhalos Member

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    Zero unless it counts if I dress up my hand in a wig a la the Jennifer Lopez episode of Southpark.
     
  16. Smoothdick

    Smoothdick Member

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    You're married too, huh?
     
  17. madbeast

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    at 2-4 times a day when i go to visit my boyfriend, and i usually get to see him like once or twice a week.
     
  18. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    3-5 times a week :)

    sometimes more!!!

    and i masturbate even *more* frequently than that!

    *gigggles*
     
  19. FlyingBurritoBro

    FlyingBurritoBro Sing Me Back Home

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    Good point. Posters ought to say how long they've been together and if they're married. For comparison.
     
  20. Hacker

    Hacker Vescere Bracis Meis

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    How does the half work in your case? Do you do him favors or does he do you favors?

    And to answer the question, I have been married for 11 years and we get to it maybe thrice a week. She is attending an out of town college once a week, and the next night does a group at work. I work weekends a lot lately (which is very abnormal for me), so I am guessing I will celibate quite against my will for a month or two... If it were up to me, I'd get busy 4 - 5 times a week normally, and 4-5 times a day when I am "in the mood"...
     

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