How many of you.....

It's not the first thing I mention, but of course I tell them if it comes up in a conversation, or if they happen to ask, or if it's obvious that they're trying to hit on me.

 

if she starts strokin my dick, no I won't say anything....but if she wants the dick inside of her, then I'll be like, "hey, maybe we shouldn't, I'm married"

 

It is hard to talk to me for very long without hearing me refer to the wife. I also wear a ring. However, we are in an open relationship. So sometimes the conversations are interesting (Grin)

 

Why do must guys who end up IMing me think that just cuz I use a messenger service that it is only to find a date. Even while I'm playing canasta, someone will pop in and start asking me what I look like and some x-rated questions. Sometimes they get the hint when I instantly tell them that after having 7 kids I don't look as good as they would want so they better look elsewhere.

 

thats why i dont message anymore, im sick of like my messages be from AKSHJK11222 or 69guy124432 asking me if i have a web cam..i could be a guy for shitsake and they dont care.. its annoying thats why i loathe messenger now...

i dont straight out say im with someone, i usually ingore all people so that helps... if someone who i get a weird feeling from and know hes trying to hit on me, i will completely ingore them...rude? why yes, but thats me...

 

Since I've had a boyfriend, i don't even go on IM services anymore. It seems like that's all people are looking for on there is a hook up anyway (even though that's not what I was on there for).

In general...if a guy comes up to me in a bar and we start to chat...if it seems like he's trying to make a move on me, I'll subtly say, "Have you been here before? My boyfriend and I come here often", or something of that nature...that usually gives them a hint or two.

 

both of those are names I have

 

i must put out scary predator vibes, because men get all scared and look for their girlfriends if i askwhat time it is. jesus, i must be hideous.

as for telling someone else i'm "spoken for," i don't usually need to. until they ask me out or something.

 

Do you mean like when I'm alone or when my wife is there?

 

how 'bout you answer for each situation. lol.

 

Trying to...the voting machine won't let me click on the 3 options.