Me too. I'm gay and single. But unfortunately I don't think there are many gay people on this site anymore, or perhaps ever. I know the vast majority of men here are bisexual (like I thought I was for decades, only to, in the last two years (I'm 62), realize I have been gay all my life). And most of these bi men are married, having sex with other guys, oral and/or anal, on the down low. I wish I could find a discussion forum where there are lots of gay men, people that I can relate to, guys that are my peeps. Thank God at least I have a large group of gay men that I socialize with, though almost all of them are married, to each other.