So some friends and I where talking the other day about what is the perfect amount of time for sex.it seemed that most of the ladies thought that the men came to quickly but some just wanted the foreplay to last a long time and the the actual sex act to just hurry up and get done.what are your thoughts?
there are many factors that come into play and most woman are used to it ending pretty fast. There is never enough forplay but nothing replaces the actual sex part. The one I am with now was used to 2 minutes and when she first got the "we go till she is done" she was not used to it. Long sessions need breaks and the guy needs to pay attention to make sure she is wet enough to continue.
I've always been a her first kind of guy. Seems better for me if she has gotten of first. And I am also good with the long foreplay.
Minimum 45 minutes PIV sex, maximum about 6 hours (with mini breaks to go to the bathroom, snacks and fluids). I've spent whole weekends with my wife where all we did was fuck. Granted, los of pot was involved, but 2 days of non stop sex is the way to go
Well for me, I like to have 15 to 20 minutes before I go to sleep on a work night. On weekends I like to take a couple hours and enjoy it more bc we are not rushed.
The actual act of sex itself is good for 10-20 mins if the guy has the stamina but I also like to work out a lot in foreplay whether I'm performing oral or he is and I also like to strip tease etc. which I add on to the "time" of sex. So the intimacy of the act I like to have at least an hour of fun. Switching positions is really good at prolonging the guy or so I find and I've never been too shy to not give oral after he's been inside me I think it's a turn in for me anyway so I like doing this. As long as a guy hits the right spot I don't seem to have trouble getting an orgasm so even if he's only going to last 5 mins or less, as long as he's for the spot and I'm twiddling my clit then I know I can orgasm. The 5minute guys were so high school though, I don't find that to be much of a problem when I look to guys 5-10 years older than me.
Foreplay, provided it is both sensual and arousing can last forever. (Well, an hour seems good.) The actual in-out bit? Honestly 15 mins of good penetration is wonderful. We can get dry, just because we do. If it's backdoor, 10 mins max in there: but what a 10 mins. BJ's - probably 5 mins if it's serious. However - if the partner is another woman ........ see first bit of answer.
My wife usually wants to end when I still have to cum. Rarely I cum too early, it can happen when I haven't cum for a day or two. But, usually I can manage. Anyway my wife doesn't want the intercourse to last too much. Usually we take half an hour (foreplay included). Sent from my iPhone 5C using Tapatalk
