i invited someone over for dinner.. on the 17th oh june. an open invite. "whenever you can is good for us" not a date.. not a hook-up.. just a friendly dinner invite.. i know he's been online since thought of emailing to say.. "a simple "no" will work too"
just a little strange.. emailing back and forth daily.. then nothing.. hmmm am i scary? do i smell funny?
Yes I would say a day or two tops would have been plenty of time if you knew he recieved it. Thats pretty terrible.
ugh.. makes me wonder about .. ME.. did i do something wrong? does this person not wanna be my friend and is just lying? am i just making a fool of myself? if i do write back, saying i'm not happy about being ignored, am i making a fool of myself again? should i just drop it and cut my loss? ugh! it's someone i've been chatting with for years online.. i figured since i was in the area.. i'd be kind enough to feed him a warm meal. my only way i can really say "thanks for being my friend" but noooooooooooo ( and i wonder why i'm so messed in the head when it comes to any type of relationships )
your a woman, they take things more personal than men normally do. If it helps I promise not to leave ya hangin as a freind (she laughs hysterically)
i think thats what bugs me the most.. being ignored i could live with him saying "no thanks, i'd rather not" but just to not email me back at all is.. well fucked up.
I can't smell anything from here. I say give them two minutes, if they don't write back, go to their house with a club and a shovel.
I never get invited to dinner, people just show up here for it, lol Maybe since I never know when I shall be home and when I do show up being a small town it gets around Im here they show up? Who knows, maybe it does just suck to be me, lol
if i know where he lived... :X heheh nooo i'd never mr yanknburn i think i even invited you over for dinner if your ever in the same place as me.. promise not to poison you too hell.. i'll feed anyone.
The way a guys mind works; Day 1: "I can't reply to her email until I come up with something witty". Day 2: "I can't reply to her email until I come up with something witty + an excuse for not getting back to her yesterday" Day 3: "I can't reply to her email until I come up with something really witty and a really good excuse for taking 2 days + an apology" Day 4: "This is too much pressure, fuck it. I'm going to get drunk and look at internet porn" Day 15: "Holy Shit! It's been 2 weeks!? Oh well fuck it, I already blew it anyway". Day 234: "Hi. I just came across an old email of yours and I was wonderring how you've been".
I don't think you'd be making a fool of yourself. I think you've got a right to know what's up. And actually I think the really foolish thing would be to let your fear of looking foolish (in his eyes) keep you from being real (I know because I'm a fool and that's what I usually do).
