whats the average time limit of having sex? i dono if i can last that long =[ probably 5 minutes - does this suck?
well man, the lenght of time i actually have it inside her before i cum can be like 1 minute if im really turned on to like 45 minutes if im either not that horney or in the mood to take it really slow. But the sex shouldent just be the insertion, you should be doing a lot of feeling and touching, playing and kissing and such for much more than 5 minutes, putting your penis in her is just part of it all.
*applause*! VERY well said. Exactly what I would have said if you hadn't. I'm the same way with the first part, and I totally agree with the second part. My favorite kind of sex is where she and I are just luxuriating in our togetherness, touching, kissing, licking, sucking, rubbing, fucking, all for hours and mixed-and-matched for as long as we feel like it or as long as there's time for. It is definitely not all about having the penis in the vagina! Being playful and loving is 99% of it. Heck, I spend plenty of time massaging and kissing a girl's feet. That, to us, is part of "sex." The actual copulation can be pretty brief, but as long as we're not counting on that being what gets her off orgasmically, what's the big deal? Besides, I bounce back like right away, and after every successive orgasm, it takes more and more stimulation to make me come the next time. Therefore, I never worry about going off too soon. I'll be able to go a longer period right afterward. As long as you're not finished for the night because of one orgasm, you should be alright. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Why the hell should there be a time limit to it ? Just go with the flow and enjoy the moment. There's plenty of fun/enjoyment to be had long before the insertion. Personally, I get a kick out of seeing the lady getting off before I do !!
aint no time limits involved! it's best when you really feel love for someone, and you spend all day in a togetherness that's completely inexplicable. wanting to touch them, be with them naked... i think it begins with the thoughts of sex and goes the entire day for me, progressing through making out, touching, et al, to the marathon sex heh heh heh. but seriously. then afterwards (maybe i'm lucky i found a guy who genuinely likes to cuddle i've heard many don't?) just laying together naked, maybe even napping. it's not JUST penis in vagina. though that is a really great part of it.
yes, even if people had the energry to hump non stop that wouldent be fun and it would loose all meaning after a short time. The being close and enjpying everything about eachother is good. I dont even think there is a clear point when it goes from being playing to sex, we cuddle and hang out play, and all kinds of stuff all day if we dont have to do anything, sometimes we nap together naked, other times we kiss and touch and lick and such untill we get worked up enough that we want to actually put it inside her, but if you get fixated on a goal, belive me you will suck all the fun and romance out of sex. because you will never be in the moment, youll be like, can i put it in now? ok am i going to come too quick? am i gonna gome fast enough? and that sucks, you might as well be doing a jigsaw puzzle if your gonna do it like that. so dont worry about time, if you love her and have passion for her, just let that controll you, dont worry about if its sex, what kind of sex, or how long its taking, just let your feelings tell your hands and everything else what to do, and you'll most likely make her and you feel great.
