If it's doing all kinds of things in bed, I can go an hour. But that means that a good part of the time I'm going down on her or playing with her ass or perking up her nipples and in between she's stroking me or sucking me or playing with my balls. But if it's a blowjob and she's intent on making me pop, I can't last long. I can actually feel her smiling around my spasming cock as I let it out since she knows that I was trying to wait....but she was too good.
Honestly varies a lot, and I haven't figured out the reasoning yet... Sometimes I could go from zero to ready to explode within 10 mins, other times I've gone maybe a couple of hours (stop/start, change positions etc or small breaks, obvs) of various things and still not ready... Sometimes I've just been OK to not cum at all, if it's been a good long session and she's already well satisfied. And that's not cos of lack of enjoyment at all, quite the opposite - maybe it's gone past sensitive or something but still feels amazing and I'm happy with that!? I dunno, and I kinda prefer to last longer like that if I had the choice (think I'm a pleaser lol!) <shrug>
It depends, of course. I might like to think I'm pretty good at it, but there are some things and sensations that are quite hard to resist even in the moment! Such as the convulsing motions her lady-parts will go through when I'm trying my best to bring her to an orgasm. They start out feeling like the most sensual kisses ever - like the softest and yet most subtly enticing caresses coming from this warm, perfectly lubricated 'mouth' of hers - only to become gradually more and more forceful, passionate and enticing as she gets closer and closer to the brink... and then turn into this positively ravenous, wild "milking", penis-suckling kissing action as her actual orgasm suddenly hits! It makes you dizzy with peak-arousal and peak-pleasure every single time. I don't think it's even possible to resist should it happen. It is insane. You think only a great blowjob can make you spasm and pop? You haven't seen nothing yet.
So many variables. First real GF I had serious PE issues. ALWays went down on her and she came first, but then I'd bust way too soon. First time with my live in GF it was over way too soon. She was understanding and patient, taught me a lot of things, and I'd say within a month or so I was up to an hour. First time with my ex wife it was a quickie in my car. Yeah it was quick, but made up for it later that night. First time with current wife I surprised both of us. She had three orgasms before I did. Probably 30 min. The pressure of wanting to please her probably factored into it. Round 2 was close to an hour. Later times were usually at least 30 min of actual sex, even after lots of foreplay.
When we were newly married I lasted about 5 to 10 minutes on many occasions. But we were doing frequently 3 - 4 times a week. Now in our sixties we both last for more than 45 mins with full penetration and simultaneous orgasm most of the time. Our frequency is twice a week. If my wife is on top the we both last about 15 to 30 minutes but make sure we both cum together.
These days it depends on what we’re doing. If she’s giving me a BJ or a handjob I can hold out for a while and enjoy it. But once my cock goes in her pussy it doesn’t take long and I’m erupting like a cum volcano. I don’t know if it’s aging or we don’t have as much sex due to having young kids. Or maybe it’s our routine (she sucks my cock before it goes inside her). All I know is that I miss being able to last a lot longer inside a woman than I do now. Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy that I’m still able to get pretty hard and shoot a good load, but I’d love to make the buildup last a bit longer like it used to be.
Depends how it’s interpreted If straight to ejaculation, I took seconds from penetration, oral, and 40 minutes as a guess from a blowjob and she asked what she needed to do to make me cum Edging, orgasming and holding back the ejaculation, up to an hour. I could have tried to do it longer but her arm was getting tired
it really depend by many many factor.. from few minutes (after long teasing or under special stimulation) to 20-30' if I can control speed and intensity!
I've been able to hold on for an hour or so but it really depends on several things. Mood, stress, what I'm doing, what she's going to me plus a lot of other things. I've also popped after just a few minutes either after entering her pussy or after a few strokes over my cock head. Had one partner who knew how to suck my nipple just right while delivering a hand job. Couldn't last any time when she did that. But when I get high I can last and last and then when I get there, Oh My!
