how long before...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by AcousticPeace, Jul 3, 2006.

  1. AcousticPeace

    AcousticPeace Member

    when losing your virginity, whats the most acceptable amount of time the relationship delevopes prior to it? a year? a couple months? what do u think.
  2. bruschetta

    bruschetta Member

    losing your virginity is overrated:)

    i say a couple of hours of hard drinking:)
  3. tishie_bear

    tishie_bear Member

    I think you should at least know the person for a while before you do it. Know that they're not crazy, or just using you.
  4. Gypsy_girl

    Gypsy_girl Member

    Yeah I think you should know them well beforehand so you know they truly care about you and aren't just using you. As for the time factor? I'd say at least 3 or so months, (of being in a relationship that is), or any time over that, but that really depends on the people involved there are no real *rules*, but I say the longer you've known them the better.
  5. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

    completely depends on the people involved and the vibe between them

    my first bf and I waited about four months. it was right for us. Doesn't mean it'll be right for both of us
  6. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    Yes, it totally depends.
  7. bruschetta

    bruschetta Member

    I was just kidding btw:)

    you should get to know them.... but dont wait too long or else it gets to be weird, planned, and not so much spontaneous....
    if it doesnt feel right just yet then wait some more.
  8. MollyBloom

    MollyBloom Member

    haha. Yeah, I agree. I remember I just decided the week I wanted to lose it, just to get it over with. I bought all the proper protection, and just kinda asked the guy I was hooking up with that week. It was awful the first time. Glad it's over. Nothing but blue skies from there on in :sunglasse
  9. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    As long as you feel is necessary.
  10. garfbag

    garfbag Member

    no set time... there shouldn't be set time... you should know when is right... that's why every human being is unique... your being horny is a diff story tho... but then that could be fixed without penetration.
  11. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

    (wrong thread sorry)
  12. dietcoketree

    dietcoketree Member

    whevever your ready. obviously you want the opinions of others so maybe your unsure of it yourself. wait until you dont have to choose... and it just feels right.

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