How do you share your wife?

Where are you on the wife sharing spectrum?

I have met many guys who enjoy sharing their wifes, some just the idea of it and others have made a lifestyle out of it. From just a private fantasy you keep to yourself. Where are you?

I have met professionals who you can tell are into the idea if they get a few drinks in but will only hint about how hot their wife is and how sexual she is or they wish she was. There are guys who just enjoying showing off to their buddies in different forms, my favorite are friends who encourage their wife to flash, dance and do naughty dares. They often hide it under the umbrella of drunk shenanigans. Then there are guys who do everything in their power to put their wife's in situations where she will let out her naughty side knowing she is down for naughty fun but maybe a little shy at first. Of course you have those in the lifestyle who regularly practice sharing and everything in between.

 

I'm not exactly sure how your "spectrum" is defined. Are we talking "only imagine/fantasize about it" at one end, and "share her frequently with a large number of men" at the other end? If so, I'm probably close to the middle.

I've only shared my wife with one guy, a very close personal friend of ours. Our MFM threesome with him lasted about half a year, during the latter half of 1985. The three of us would get together, either at the home of my wife and I or at 2-3 remote outdoor locations (when the weather was nice.) He and I would take turns kissing, petting, and fucking my wife, who loved the attention. Our only rule was fuck her bareback and cum inside her. She loved the feel of our cocks pulsing in her.

 

Yes that is a fare description of the spectrum

 

That was up to her to decide. With help from her friends' bits of information.

 

For us it not about my sharing her.I don’t own her body. But, it is about us sharing our sexual bodies with others. We stay together and play together. Neither of us do this alone and neither of us take one for the team.
Our relationship is co owned and not open to others.

 

Panama, I agree completely. We wouldn't have had our threesome way back when, if she hadn't been willing, interested, and eager. Even then, there were a couple times that a get-together was called off because she just wasn't in the mood. She was totally in control of when, where, and how long.

At the time of our threesome, we'd been married for six years and engaged for two years before that. She was a virgin when we met, so she'd only had sex with me until our threesome began. A couple months before that, I suggested that she might like to find out what sex with another man was like and that, given the right guy, I was ready to let her find out. She was ambivalent at first but, the more she considered it, the more interested she became. When I suggested the male friend who ultimately joined us, that clinched it for her. When I pitched the idea to him and said that she was already sold on it, he agreed immediately. The rest is history.

 

Thanks Buzzgunner, What we do is not done haphazardly. We do enjoy it when the stars align.

 

I do sort of envy you. My wife and I are both in our mid-60s. Since our threesome ended in '85. nothing like it has occurred since. I miss that part of our lives very much.

 

My wife is 64 and I am 68. We haven’t been doing this long. Just in the last year. We are not bed hoppers, but realize there are a lot of couples our age doing the same thing. At our age it’s more of a quality encounter than putting notches in the head board.
However, the last couple we were with were in their 50’s.

 

Unfortunately, for me, it's more about precious memories than anything else. I'm 66, my wife is 64, and it's been over three years since we've had sex (with each other, or anyone else.) It's all due to medical issues on my part.

 

My marriage to this woman has been nothing but incredible, after 38 yrs of marriage we share everything together. Even before we got married we decided we were going to maintain an open marriage sexual wise. When we met in collage we were both free spirits if you will. Our lust for sex never hidden from each other, she and I share our bisexuality openly between us. Do i enjoy watching her with other men, absolutely, her lust for sex is incredible. At 60 yrs old she fucks like an 18 yr old. She is not a size queen either she enjoys all sizes of cock. We maintain a group of like minded partners who we trust and play with very frequently. Our life style works for us very well.

 

Most guys here share them, with other men. Mine had many more encounters with other women than men. Any other guys know of their wife being with other ladies?

 

Mine had a one nighter with a married bi acquaintance while I was out of town. I knew she was going to her place and was so turned on I couldn’t stand it. The other woman called a few times to get together again. My wife said NO. Said she scratched it off of her bucket list. I’ve always wondered if she didn’t really enjoy it (she said she did) or if she liked it too much and she questioned her sexuality? She still won’t talk about it these many years later.

 

My never really went into much detail

 

Did you ask?

 

She told me quite a bit about the time she was seduced by an older woman. And then about the first time she seduced a shy girl who paid a lot of attention to her. But she didn't talk much about others. She never considered it cheating being with another woman. I did ask but she wanted to protect the other women's privacy. In our open relationship, we agreed to tell each other, about our encounter. I feel she was honest about that, but who knows.
I asked her if women were better at oral, and never got a straight answer. She said at times she liked the GENTLE touch of a woman. And I know at times it wasn't that gentle. And a couple of them had huge toys. But when she came home she wanted the real thing.

 

As buzz mentioned our 3 and 4somes were with close friends . It was initiated by the wives although I'd suggested it several times to my wife I didn't arrange it . Essentially they decided although I still don't know who brought it up to who . I'm sure they knew he and I would go along with their plan . It was a wonderful 5 or 6 years but sadly ended some time ago .

 

My wife had several sex partners in college when we were dating and I was at a different college. I knew she could have sex without emotional attachment, so I gave her permission to have sex with others after we had been married about 5 years. Conditions included condoms, one date only, no friends, I get the details. She had a few "dates" and decided not to do it any more. I enjoyed the stories. I was always out of town on business or she was at an out of town convention so I was never near when she had sex with others.

 

Why did she quit dating?

 

Maybe with so many conditions, it stressed her out too much. However, not all would adhere to such conditions anyway and especially with the one date rule, as women aren't usually cut that way. Was she happy about giving you the details and for seeming having a happy ending with these few dates, as well?