How do you reciprocate after you've cum?

After I cum, Im done. No desire to reciprocate. I know, bad.

Those of you who continue after cumming, how do you do it?

 

Oh, my. It took me a long time to learn how to reciprocate after he's made me cum... and I'd rather get hit by a speeding train. I think part of what drove me to make myself push through it was not wanting to be known as a lousy cocksucker or the kind of guy who gets sucked off and runs away without sticking to his part of the deal. I would feel pretty drained and shitty and it took a lot of concentration to keep sucking him until he came and I found that if I focus on what I'm doing and not how I'm feeling, I can keep going after cumming. Or, if he's gonna fuck me - and I'd rather eat broken glass with a Draino chaser - I'd... just lie there and take it until he came, which was easy since I didn't have to do anything other than get fucked. It worked with girls/women - if I came before they did, well, I'd just go back down on them and eat them until (a) they came or (b) I could get hard enough to get back in her and once back in, fuck nice and slow and until I could get really hard, fuck her again and cum in her again.

If I nutted before they did, it was on me to be able to keep going; it was easier when I was younger, much harder when I was older but I can still cum and reciprocate.

 

Once I did have a guy suck me off then fuck me. Turned out to be one of my hottest sessions ever. Getting fucked after I came was hard, but I could feel and remember everything. OMG!

 

Still jo to the memory.

 

I get horny again once I touch and start sucking his cock. Even after he cums, I'll continue to suck him for a while to make sure he's totally relieved of cum. Was the same with pussy.

 

Although I've never experienced this concept with a cock, I do it all the time with my wife. I give her oral for awhile before we fuck, then we fuck and I always cum in her and go back down on her to finish her off. I do have to say that my desire to eat her cum filled pussy is diminished a good deal after I cum compared to before. Before I cum I feel like I could eat it all out of her like a Shop Vac and want her to sit on my face so I get it all, which she does do from time to time. I love how her swollen, hot, and horny pussy feels as she fucks my mouth with it full of cum. But, this isn't what we usually do and if I'm being honest, my raging filthy dirty mind downshifts a couple gears after I cum so most times she just stays on her back and I go back down on her. I can say I love the taste of a cum filled pussy though. Just need to figure out how to keep that raging desire going after I cum. This is where a third person with a cock playing with us would be awesome!

 

You have to... reset. Regroup and recover enough to get that famous second wind. Even if you tell the guy that you need a moment before continuing to suck him so you can "push" the yuckiness to the side so you can suck him off or to regain that raging desire for her. I'd be lying if I said that this is easy... because it isn't.

 

I'm always ready to give head. I don't lose sexual interest after orgasm, which is probably why my refractory period is so short.

I really do mean it when I say I love cock.

 

My wife has climbed up onto my face many times after I have cum inside her because she needed some extra clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm. I just get her into the right place on my face and go with the flow...so to speak.

When I am with a guy, I am almost always with a man who does not reciprocate - my choice. It is the roll I take and enjoy immensely. There have only been two times where I came before the other person - the first asked me to jack off and cum on his dick as he was getting close to coming. Then I finished him in my mouth with my cum all over his dick and which was quickly joined by his. The second was during the pandemic when I went to a clinic and the male NP turned my exam into an amazing seduction. Afterwards, I was still so turned on that I asked if he would let me suck his, but he declined.

I guess the best way to go about reciprocating is the just 'suck it up and dive in'.......or 'dive in and suck it up' - both would work wonderfully

 

Most of the guys I've been with for mutual sucking we would take turns sucking each other's cocks, but not to the point of orgasm. He sucks on mine for 10 minutes; I suck on his for 10 minutes, and we repeat this several times before getting in the 69 position to suck each other to orgasm. I do enjoy cumming in his mouth while sucking on his cock to eventually receive his load in my mouth.

 

For me it depends. Once I cum, often, not always, my arousal level drops. For that reason, I will try to hold off as long as I can. However, with my wife, I like to keep going and will often stay hard and my "horniness level(?)" will pick up quickly again. As a matter of fact, she is more likely to want to stop after I cum. I make her cum as many times as I can (because I love it when she does). So she sees my orgasm as the final act she has said. (I have tried to convince her it doesn't have to be- work in progres, LOL)
With a guy, I had tended to be done, once I came. Just not turned on anymore. But lately, with my FWB, I have discovered that if I keep going, I can focus more on what I am doing and what it is doing for him. And frequently, I'll find myself getting hard and fired up again.

 

I was always able to maintain an erection(when I was younger ) and keep on going or follow your proceedure of cumming, going back down on them or something that kept the excitement level up . The other thing was that I always enjoyed eating juicy pussy after fucking it for a while. I loved everything about it. Eating it after cumming in her , or any other woman, was always a Treat

 

For me it’s not a problem. I don’t loose the desire to reciprocate I will enjoy his cock before I cum and after.

 

If I’m with a guy I have no problem swallowing his load after I cum.

 

Interesting. A dichotomy.

 

Same here, I've sucked off multiple guys in a group setting a number of times after having shot my load. Many times, I was sucked off again to provide another load of cum.

 

I feel the same way.

 

I've always been able to cum multiple times when playing with a partner but rarely solo. I've been able to cum as many as eight times in one setting, the last few were dry though. If I cum in a pussy I'll slide on down and clean up my mess, no problem. Never had the pleasure of playing with a cock. Not that I wouldn't given the opportunity it just hasn't arisen. If it did I do believe I would do as I do with a pussy at my disposal.

 

I guess I am the exception to this rule. Enjoy sucking after I have cum. Feels very intimate to me.

 

Reciprocating isn't usually a problem for me. I do everything I can to get into a 68 relationship. Like 69 but I'll do you and you can owe me one.
If a guy gets me off I'm still ready for what he wants. If he wants a blowjob, no problem. I'm always in the mood to give head.
If he wants to fuck me, well he better have a small dick and we better not be in a hurry. More often the circumstance isn't good for fucking. Most of the time I'm in a quick hook up thing where my bud just needs to get off and move on with the day.
I think because I started sex with guys at a young age I never had the effect of not wanting dick after I cum. And I'm still the same way.