how do you know if your partner is faithful

Okay in the past i really did not date girls just because i was young and i really didnt feel like being in a relationship with just one person but now i have been dating/ talking to this one girl for a year and a half and we have been getting married in a couple but lately everything has been kinda difficult with us because we went bacck to our separate schools and she has been acting really different lately with secretive pphone calls, never having any messages in er phone but when we talk on the phone her phone is constantly bux=zzing from messages and she just started calling me boo the past couple of days and she has never done that since the day we met. am i just worrying to much or do i neeed to calm down?

 

Did you ask her why she never has messages in her phone and who she's talking to all the time?

I think it's a feeling you get, it's harder when you're long-distance to know if you're being paranoid, but if things feel different, something probably is.

 

yeah i asked her a couple times and she always says " guys be texting my texting mr stuff and i know it will make you made so i delete the messages" at this point i dont even know anymore, i honestly feel like it would be best if we broke up but at the same time its going to hurt really bad letting her go

 

if that's how you truly feel....then it's only going to hurt worse the longer you wait to do it.

 

It is called trust, It is earned and given. Once lost it is hard to get back and hard to give but without it a relationship can't survive. You will never be able to be with her all the time. Guys will always be hitting on pretty girls even married girl and sometimes more so. It is how pretty girls that are married deal with these guys coming onto them that is important. Take it as flattery and move on or partake and loose trust and your relationship. Sounds like it is time for her to grow up and be honest or for both of you to move on. Good luck

 

trust, if theres no trust, theres no relationship,

harsh i know but its the truth

 

This is the truth.