well, there is this one guy that I have liked for going on like 5 years now. I have had boyfriends in between and all but for some reason, even when I was with other guys, I could never completely distract myself from this other guy. Like my last boyfriend for example, I really liked him and he was one of the nicest guys I ever met but for some reason I always felt like something was missing. I never really wanted to even kiss him. Now, when I am with this other guy, I dont think of anyone else. I actually want to kiss him and I could do it for hours..and have. When I'm with him, I feel like I never want him to leave. I think he was the first guy that I actually started opening up to about my feelings. I can talk to him about anything. even more than people who are supposed to be my best friends. another thing, I havent really had too much experience sexually with too many different guys but he is the only one that really turns me on. We both have like almost the same personality(both kinda aggressive) so we dont always get along and when we fight, it makes me so upset that i get physically sick. but we always make up. I sometimes think I love him, but I'm not really sure because this would be my first love. what do you think? also, I know he likes me, but I dont know if he feels exactly the same way, but I want him to know how I feel about him. I just dont want to scare him away or seem weird. What is your opinion on that? sorry so long:&
There is nothing I love more than a philosophical debate, and of all the philosophical debates, the debate over what love is happens to be my personal favorite. After writing and rewriting definitions for the word 'love', doubting each defintion until I had wrote nearly ten pages on the subject, I finally came up with a simple yet undeniable truth about this emotion. Love is feeling so strongly for something that you can not possible have any more emotion for it, and if you have less than the maximum, it is not truely love. Can you imagine feeling more strongly for this man/boy? Do you feel like you have felt more strongly for others in the past? I hope my post will help you, but the best advice I can give you is this; Inquire about your emotions YOURSELF, question your own feelings and the answers you seek will come if you contemplate long and hard. -Jimmy
no I havent ever felt more strongly about anyone..although sometimes I do think I could have feelings that are a little stronger..
Love is a dangerous game, and we all like to play it. Loving can be so different. You love many persons, but different. If you fele safe wih him, and when you get he' the first one who pops into your mind, when you feel like flying if he looks in your eyes, or even when you get all sick during a fight, means it you love him. But who are we tot ell if you love him or not. if you do, you'll know it. mayb a little later but you'll know. and trust me... it's the greatest feeling of the whole world. ps: maybe your dreams can tell more about that feeling. I once dreamed my boyfriend died, and the pain i felt in my dream was unbearable... then i knew it.
sorry there are some mistakes. it's: *when you feel safe with him, and he's the first one who pops into your mind whe you wake up in the morning.
that is very well said i like this definition very much you should also distinguish between love and just attraction sometimes we think we love because the other person turns us on so much (which is also important) and we are attracted to certain qualities of that person that excite us... but love is much deeper i just gained the feeling recently i know there is a lot more than attraction to it, i am amazed by my bf and feel so much tenderness and interest.. but im at the very beginnning there is a long road that leads towards mature love, a lot of srains that the two encounter together that strenghten the relationship, a lot of exploring - i want to know simply everything about my bf but so far i just have the general idea... love comes with time and experience
Love is when you can sit on the phone for five minutes and just listen to eachother breathe. Love is that game you play, when you get mad and argue just so you can see the other side of that love, because she even looks beautiful mad. Love is when you say I love you and hang up, then thinking about calling back and shouting I LOVE YOU a million times and then hang up again...so you can call again... And then...you can fall in love all over again.
