How Do You Feel About Having To Listen To Loud Sex?

So as time goes by me and my partner are getting better and better at sex. Sometimes though she is so loud.

It starts off what you would expect, but she gets really sensitive over time to the point where if I even so much as touch her nipple her whole body goes tense and archs and she struggles to take it.

So considering this when I am full on going for it she is super loud, especially as I am a big fan of teasing, bondage anal pretty much everything except group, so these things make it far more intense for her and the more intense the louder she gets of course.

On any week the amount we have sex varies a huge amount due to our irregular and conflicting work hours, it will vary anywhere between 2-20+. The time also varies anywhere between 15 mins - 2 hours.

We live in a block of units sound travels pretty easy you can hear TVs even on low volume etc. I feel a little bad because everyone is quite respectful in this block, no late parties, loud music etc. So far we have had no complaints to us or to our landlord.

I was just wondering generally on the whole what goes though your head when you hear people fucking loud? Does it annoy you? Turn you on? Don't care?

 

Honestly, I don't like listening to loud sex and try not to be loud myself, even at sex parties.

 

I thought I couldn't make myself not be loud, but if she really trains herself she can do it. Being loud doesn't affect the orgasm at all. It's just a social construct. Maybe if she thinks of it like that, that might help. It helped me. As for overhearing it, I don't really care if I hear it or not. I don't giggle. I don't try to listen. I don't get turned on. I don't get upset. It's just something that I know will be done in like five or so minutes, so it's not a big deal. I think in usual most people feel and think the same as me. People just care less. I guess if the sexual sounds are odd, like she says something odd or she says "Ja" instead of moaning, then maybe I would at least stop for a second becuase of that. But, if it's standard sexual sounds, it's not consistent or done often, and it doesn't last a long time, then I don't care. I'm totally indifferent.

 

Can't say I'm usually on the listening end
I'm loud and IDGAF anymore. I've been "shushed" in the past and it totally ruins the moment.

 

Ha im kinda happy to hear that. I don't really want to annoy people to much, but I don't really want to have to tone down our sex life either.

 

It doesn't personally bother me. It took me a while to learn to be quieter! Out of necessity I had to once the kids got a few years old.

 

If you're really worried about disturbing neighbors, consider redecorating. You can tack up sound-proofing, and hang heavy rugs over to hide that stuff since it is pretty ugly. As a bonus, you won't hear them as much anymore either.

 

I can be loud, but I really try to control it if I know my neighbors are within earshot and it's late. I've been on the listening end of things and it can be aggravating, especially if you have an early morning the next day. I would try to be a little more aware of your neighbors, especially if there are any kids in the building. I would not want to be the parent that has to explain that.

 

It depends on the people, and what noises/dialogues they're making i guess.
You know when youre a kid and you accidentally walk in on your parents getting busy? Well, even though they werent obscenely loud, my house was small and the walls were thin so either from moans or the slapping sounds of whatever skin on skin contact i pretty much always knew when they were having sex. Apart from the natural bile rising at the image, and obligatory eye rolling if i had company i was pretty desensitized to it early on.
I hate obnoxious obviously overplayed porn chicks, and hearing the same in real life as well. I especially can't stand high pitched screeching whether its fake or not.
Its super interesting and hilarious to me to hear my friends going at it, and even if i have absolutely zero attraction to either of them it does give me a little jolt between the thighs in much the same way as catching a glimpse of friends during or right after they've been doing the dirty and are exposed in whatever capacity.
I dont think ive ever heard strangers fucking, but i feel like once i definitively identified that as the source of the noise so long as it wasnt annoying i wouldnt care.

 

i would jealous.....if the girl is hot that is . if not im good

 

It can be an -IMMENSE- turn on. I'm a man and especially if the person is a female with a beautiful voice and you can hear the pleasure for her is so intense it borders on agony, it has an enormous sexually stimulating effect on me. This is probably due to my first full sexual experience was with a woman who had a lovely voice but was very quiet - except when she climaxed when she'd utter these little repeated screaming shrieks of sexual ecstasy during her orgasm. So I associate female pleasure cries, groans, screams with sexual enjoyment for the woman.

If I should hear you guys I'd probably be quiet, listen intently and immediate start getting aroused, and I might start masturbating urgently while listening in! That said, it can be considered bad manners, other people might be offended to hear sex taking place - it all depends on the other people's preferences in your unit.

Then again, sex is a normal thing. Everybody does it at some point in their lives. It's living, and being a normal human being to the full. So despite it being very strongly arousing to hear for me, it would not offend me at all. I'd be perfectly cool with it if you are a considerate, quiet neighbour and occassionally I might hear a little scream or a cry when the sexual delight becomes just too intense for you. If wouldn't bother me in the slightest, quite the contrary!

 

I am a loud lady so I can not complain

 

I'm not very loud. Loudest thing most time you're going to hear is my ass being spanked.

I've settled with a few loud people before and I dunno about being told to be quiet ruins the moment, but needing a pair of earplugs half way through does.

I'm very happy with the feelings and pleasure I get, I've just never felt this urge to clean my windpipes with grunts and things. Mouth's usually tied up girl/girl anyway.

 

And then this.

 

completely ok with it, just as long as it isnt two gay dudes

 

If the girl is hot, then I can't imagine her loud, ecstatic moaning not to be sexy. I suppose if it kept me awake all night it might be a problem.

This reminds me of a story. I was visiting a friend once, and in the apartment upstairs, the couple left their window open when they fucked. It was a hot summer, so of course my friend had his window open too. The girl was moaning like hell, it was a turn on for me. I said to my friend something like "damn, she's getting fucked hard!". He then lifted the screen window, stuck his head out, and yelled "RIGHT ON BABY!"

So they stopped fucking immediately and closed the window. At least there were no more sounds after that. I was disappointed, I wish my friend had just kept his mouth shut, both for their sake and mine.

The next day, I bumped into both of them on the front porch. The girl immediately got a beet-red blush (which was also sexy), and the guy looked at me like he wanted to kill me.

 

To me it's like listening to someone in a waiting room on their cell phone. It's annoying but it could be interesting

 

Occasionally my wife gets loud during sex, but we keep the windows closed so that our neighbors don't hear. We once lived in a downstairs apartment with a loud, sexually active young lady above us. There were many nights when we went to bed with no plans for sex, only to hear her with her partner, inspiring us to join in the fun.

 

Gets me horny

 

My wife used to be loud. Having kids and not wanting to wake them up cured her of that. I kinda liked it.

Funny story - when my wife and I got married we decided to elope to escape family drama. My parents had a nasty divorce and 20 years later were still at war with each other. Planning the wedding was turning into a nightmare so we said, "Screw it" and flew from Boston to Lake Tahoe to elope. OK, not so funny, so hears the funny part:

Wife has a big mouth. People found out so both parents, not to be outdone, said, "We're going" and flew to Tahoe to crash our wedding. My mother didn't waste any time insulting my step-mother's dress (ironic considering my mother wore her wedding dress to my wedding, but that's a story for another day...) so my step-mother decided to get even.

To further set this up, a I have to point out that the hotel actually put them in adjoining rooms. What are the chances?

After the wedding, dinner, a little partying, we all head to our rooms. My Dad and step-mom are trashed. They start making a huge ruckus in their room as if they were having sex. My step-mother was moaning and screaming making all sorts of noise, banging furniture, pounding on the wall, and starting pounding the headboard until she actually ripped it off the wall. They said they did this for a couple of hours while they finished off a bottle of rum. I don't even want to think about the noises my father was making <shudder>. All to piss off my mother in the next room. It worked...my mother checked out about 6:00 AM and disappeared until she had to fly home the following day. Wouldn't answer hotel pages, her cell phone, nothing. She was pissed. Or trying to catch up on some sleep after a noisy night. I dunno. She still refuses to talk about it.

Two days later my dad and step-mother are checking out of the hotel. My stepmother is waiting for the elevator when the maid enters the room and starts screaming for all the other maids. She comes out of the room laughing and calling to the other maids that they ripped the headboard off the wall. Other guests pop their heads out of their rooms, everybody is having a good laugh about it. My step-mom was humiliated, she just tried to ignore them hoping they didn't know it was her.

True story. All of it. And yes, my mother wore her wedding dress to my wedding. And my parents weren't the only ones to crash our wedding....thirty people showed up. Nobody was invited.

 

That Is The Complete Opposite To What I Expected To Hear From You........



Cheers Glen.