how do ya make new friends?

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  1. neponiatka

    neponiatka Senior Member

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    in internet?
    in clubs?
    streets?
    do your old friends introduce ya?
    do ya do first step and come up to the ppl ya like?
    is it easy for ya to be the first to strike up a conversation?
    or do yA wait for ppl to do this?
     
  2. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Actually in quite the same way as DSOTM said. :)
     
  3. hippy i am

    hippy i am poppy seed bagels

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    Tom has it down packed.

    Of course, other vibes can help. :)
     
  4. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    I can strike conversations with anything raging from babies to old people to dogs.
     
  5. Riggs

    Riggs Banned

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    Yes
     
  6. hippy i am

    hippy i am poppy seed bagels

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    How do I make new friends?

    I fuck them senseless.

    Then we are friends.
     
  7. sanja_serbia

    sanja_serbia Senior Member

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    Depends on occasion, my mood, the other person, people around, current situation I'm in and weather.
     
  8. RastaBongKid

    RastaBongKid Member

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    what a gay post
     
  9. The_Walrus

    The_Walrus Sgt. Pepper

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    I mostly make friends at school... or I'll make friends through people I already know. Also, I've made a lot of friends through the clubs I'm in.

    I'm a really, really, REALLY shy person, so I almost never just walk over to someone and strike up a conversation.
     
  10. The DOPEshow

    The DOPEshow Member

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    in the circle of peace.

    peace out
     
  11. while lee

    while lee Member

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    remember hi how are you
     
  12. lunarflowermaiden

    lunarflowermaiden Senior Member

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    I make friends by all of the ways you listed. I will sometimes just try to show I am friendly by smiling and see if the person smiles back, and then I'll attempt to strike up a conversation. That is how I met one of my best friends.
     
  13. madlizard

    madlizard Senior Member

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    Honestly, I rarely do.
     
  14. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Yeah, I don't make a lot of new ones neither actually. I talk regularly with strangers I dig and stuff, but most of the time I just don't see them again. Most new friends just became good friends because I kept running into them (mainly at parties and festivals and stuff) and we began to dig eachother more after a few times.But I have a fine bunch of old ones happily. :)
     
  15. Riggs

    Riggs Banned

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    Guy friends I have no trouble making, it's girls that I would like just as friends is where I have the problem.
     
  16. Lorna

    Lorna The Magician

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    Maybe the problem is in you.
    How do you go when making girl your friend?
    do you trust her as she trust you?
    Are you completely honnest with her?
    Do you show sincerity?
    Are oyu loyal? do you stand for her like you will do if it was a man?
    Do you keep your word?
    Do you put her first, or do you put first otehrs you would liek to be friend with too?
    I mean, its a two way things being friend, and do you talk to ehr as you will talk to a male friend? I mean by that real talking.
    Or do you make of it an ambivalent relationship where you just are friend to keep opportunities open for you, so you can take time to decide?
    If you want a friedn you ahve also to talk, and to do so a lot and not only about bs and funny stuf, but also about more serious subject,a nd to be there when it goes bad.
    If its only good and funny for you, and it has only to be your way all the time and you dont want to compromise about anything, then, waht kind of friendship is it, and what do you expect?
    Things happen for a reason, and the other par cannot ne and musnt be the one who is always compromising to satisfy your wims and needs.
    She has needs as well, and oyu have to acknowledge them even those who means that you have to bend a bit too.
     
  17. AmIAYou

    AmIAYou Member

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    just swallow any shyness you might have and say hi, hope it works out neh?
     
  18. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Easier said then done, but you're right. Never shot, always missed!
     
  19. AmIAYou

    AmIAYou Member

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    exactly

    ye regret what you dont do more than you regret what you do do,
    by the way wheres the quote from the gorgeousness and gorgeosity bit looks like a part from A clockwork orange (the book) but the rest of it doesn't
     
  20. imaginepeace

    imaginepeace Livin' the Dream

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    The forums...lol..
    naw i hardly make new friends, if i do its through old friends.
     

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