how do u guys go along just wannting sex with a chick

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by jmt, May 6, 2011.

  1. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    There's a chick that's into me but I just dnt really want a relationshipp at the moment....how do I tell her about my intentions....
     
  2. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    You just gotta tell them straight up. Be nice, but blunt about what you want. If they don't want it, they will let you know. If they do, they will let you know.

    Edit: I really dig your sig man :D
     
  3. SweetBlasphemy

    SweetBlasphemy Senior Member

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    ^^^Exactly, there's really no other way to put it. However, if she's into you it could be a problem later on. She'll probably agree to just be FWB at first then she'll get all clingy and emotional so tread carefully.
     
  4. boguskyle

    boguskyle kyleboguesque

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    tell her "i'm not lookin for a relationship." then wink :wink:
     
  5. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    It's her fault assuming that you want more.
     
  6. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    lol thanks for such deep insight.
     
  7. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    no its your fault. :devil:
     
  8. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    for the famales replying in this thread.....how would you guys feel?
     
  9. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    +1
     
  10. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    If it is evident I do not want more out of it and she really does I can't bring myself to go along with it at all :( :p
     
  11. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Where is it stated she assumes this about him? Or is this clear if someone's into another person :confused:
     
  12. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    btw i havent even lead her on to anything to be honest. I just not sure if she into me or not.

    and how exactly do i want more??
     
  13. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    wild flowers lacks oxygen...
     
  14. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    make up your mind...

    keep your story straight and It would be more believable.
     
  15. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    I don't lack oxygen you knob. I'm saying that IF she was to assume you want more from her (which you don't because you've stated you want sex) then thats her own fault for letting her hopes get up without any real confirmation that you want more then that. Therefore you shouldn't have to worry about finding a way to tell her that you don't want anything serious. I didn't realize i'd have to spell it out for your dumb ass.
     
  16. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    I will say that am not so sure....happy webon?
     
  17. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    I never lead her on to anything and you assumed that out of generalize so your the bigger idiot.

    your first post:

    as even Asmodean pointed out:

     
  18. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    That's not the way it was meant. I meant worst case scenario. If she assumes you want more from her, it's not your fault. Way to blow it out of proportion.
     
  19. jmt

    jmt Ezekiel 25:17

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    Quit bullying me! :(
     
  20. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    Just tell her.. in all honesty I'd rather someone just tell me than me end up getting hurt. Which sucks majooorrr balls.
     
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